Probably not the correct thread for this....
Whilst I agree with a a some of your sentiments, if you’ve worked in schools & welfare to work sector, then surely you’ll be aware that your last sentence is grossly unfair to a good percentage of those kids, who are trapped in a cycle.
If not, check out the percentages of those out of work or those in prison who have special needs. The stats are frightening. It really isn’t as simple as following their parents example, the ‘system’ is failing a lot of kids.
To give you an example, if you have a special educational need, you’re 7 times more likely to get excluded than a non SEN pupil, which is completely unfair. As you’ll definitely be aware, if you get expelled, have poor education/grades, it can be difficult to get on the social/job ladder, so you get stuck in a cycle.
If you can be arsed looking at the percentages, this isn’t just a UK problem, it’s a global phenomenon & a cycle which needs breaking as we are currently failing SEN kids, which then perpetuates the the cycle & therefore the problem.
No idea what the solution is & as you say, there are definitely plenty of work shy people in the UK who don’t help themselves, but your last sentence bothered me a little, hence the response.
Like you said, probably not the correct thread for this but I feel compelled to reply.
If you look back at previous posts prior to the one you responded to, you may get the full picture as, whether intentional or not, your post reminds me of Uefa's case against City that went to CAS where it appears you have taken out of context snippets from much bigger pieces of information and looked at this in isolation.
I am fully aware of the stats around SEN kids however there is no direct link between being eligible for FSM and having a statement so I'm no quite sure what you're getting at there?
In fact the vast majority of SEN kids aren't eligible for FSM so you're basically comparing apples with oranges and the origins of the posts prior to this discussion are based on the BBC's reporting of Rashford and whether it will help to tackle to route cause of issues in society around child poverty and nothing to do with SEN.
Nothing to do with SEN kids and like yourself, having worked in schools and for a Local Authority within Education, I don't think that enough resources are invested in improving the lives and chances of these kids and professionals who specialise in that field who I know personally have been saying and pushing for more resources for years.
My school has pretty good SEN provision and has a great reputation for this in the area however it is chronically under resourced.
In addition to going back further and reading previous posts, If you had read my last sentence properly, I said MANY will follow their parents example (not all) and from personal experience teachers in my school are pissing in the wind trying to provide an education for a lot of kids (not SEN) as their parents are setting such a poor example at home. This was around kids whose parents are fit and healthy and capable of making a meaningful contribution to society but choosing not to and you would have been aware of this if you had read all of the previous posts.
Like yourself, the poster I was responding to had, whether intentional or not, not read all of the previous posts and had taken one post in isolation and responded to that rather than looking at and being fully aware of the whole discussion or as I like to call it the Uefa v City approach.
The discussion started yesterday and was around the BBC and the amount of time and pubic money they are spending publicising Marcus Rashford with camera crews etc. at the licence fee payers expense.
Nothing wrong with mentioning his activities in the news as was the case with ITV.
One of my points is that this excessive publicity from the BBC (especially when compared with other news outlets), will not tackle the route cause / causes.
I don't want to put words in your mouth but perhaps you agree that paying a BBC report and a camera crew to follow Marcus Rashford around isn't going to provide a solution as it's not as easy or as straightforward as that?
This is what I have been saying all along.