My Little Girl

A bite that leaves a mark should really be reported in an accident book at the nursery for you to sign off when you pick up your little girl.

I don't think it's really acceptable to just write it off as something that happens, if someone is doing it over and over again I'd really want the nursery to do something about it.
 
This should have been reported and you should have been given an incident slip to sign. I took my little boy out of one playgroup a while back due to this and not changing his nappy on 2 occasions. If your not happy speak to the staff,this is not acceptable!
 
It happens, I am sure that every child at the nursery has been victim and aggressor to this kind of thing. Listening to the over reaction on here will lead you to pursue the wrong end.
 
it does happen as it happened to my son, and my son also went through the biting stage but only me and his nanna....
but if you think it is happening too much then ask the nursery and so on till you get an answer you want. also ask other parents when you pass going in and out if it has happened to their child in the same class if so then something is going on and i suggest you change nurserys
 
My little un is going through a stage of biting at the moment, esp at nursery, we've tried biting him back telling him off sitting him on his own hes 16 months and doesnt fully understand what he is doing. Some of the kids are older than him in his class and I think its his way of leveling the playing field. We have to sign forms every time he does it.

Any one who thinks its bad parenting or thinks that giving me a smack will help, feel free. My son is a very clever lad advanced for his age and bought up in a nice area with loving parents. I ve got a decent job as has my misses.

Biting back doesnt work, and I really dont want to be shouting at a 16 month year old. So were now encouraging the nursery to do what we do at home which is to stop him biting, move him away from the situation, and then give lots of attention to what or who he is biting.

But at the end of the day kids will be kids, I've seen him get smacked by bigger children at play areas and other children bite him as well. He doesnt tend to react to people doing it to him and neither do I, its part of being a Kid.
 
I remember when my boy came home from nursery with his "achievement flower"
a small card with all the landmarks they had achieved that week wrote on it.

I love them,saved them all. One of them read "today you counted to ten"
"today you identified colours" and then "today you shown affection after you hurt one of your friends"

At least he's not a total psycho!
 
BlueDean said:
Any one who thinks its bad parenting or thinks that giving me a smack will help, feel free. My son is a very clever lad advanced for his age and bought up in a nice area with loving parents. I ve got a decent job as has my misses.

i agree there as alot of the kids in our family either bit/bite/ been bitten... its just the kids nothing to do with parenting... anyone who thinks it does have something to do with parents either dont have kids, if they do they either had kids who didnt /haven't gone through the stage...or if they have looking to shift the blame or ignore the fact altogether. it really does not have anything to do with the parenting as my son knows right from wrong (19months but very nosey and clever into everything sort of toddler) he started a biting and head butting habbit when he couldnt get his own way or when he was bored but with the moving him away technique and also the no thats naughty he realised it will not get him what he wanted as it wasnt something a toddler should have even if mummy and daddy use it. but he also realised that if he wants attention he will get it more by giving hugs and kisses... so its a habbit kids go threw and yes its not nice when your child gets bit but it doesnt give him any serious damage... yes in the first post it has happened a few times therefore there maybe cause of alarm but you may just find its just two children not liking eachother therefore you try get your child moved or this child could be bitting other children as well whicch is something to be looked at more closely.
 

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