My wife is crazy and it's getting to be a problem.

[BlueFurn]

Haha, nice one Blue Maverick’s Mum!

This will end up in classic threads.
Hope the OP had had enough sympathy and good advice.

 

[Mr Kobayashi]

I’ve been bitten four times. I’ve found them two faced, dishonest, insincere, a nightmare to please, highly strung etc.

If it’s my house then she moves in with me. As a 43 year old who got over a huge health scare last year then kids here are a no go. I don’t really see the issue.

They can be but it's probably the type of women you are going for and not putting your foot down early on.

I've had some absolute nightmares but despite not deserving the disrespectful and downright nasty behaviour I also have to take the blame for putting up with it and carrying on seeing them.

Even things like turning up late to dates or always being hard to please are warning signs.

It’s not an issue as such, but if you still had that that suspicion that she's gonna do you over, why would you stay with them?

 

[Barcon]

They can be but it's probably the type of women you are going for and not putting your foot down early on.

I've had some absolute nightmares but despite not deserving the disrespectful and downright nasty behaviour I also have to take the blame for putting up with it and carrying on seeing them.

Even things like turning up late to dates or always being hard to please are warning signs.

It’s not an issue as such, but if you still had that that suspicion that she's gonna do you over, why would you stay with them?

 

[Bluechipblue]

There is literally nothing I can do or say that doesn't end up with her taking offense and yelling at me. If I clean the kitchen it means I think she's a woman who doesn't know how to keep a clean kitchen. If I ask her if she bought toothpaste recently it's not because I want to know if we need toothpaste it's because I think she's a woman who never buys things we need. If I send her flowers at work I'm an asshole who thinks that sending flowers will make up for all of the horrible shit I do like asking if we have toothpaste. One time she literally left me and moved back in with her parents because I... CLEANED THE KITCHEN!!!!!

She has this habit of taking out one of our dogs without a leash or collar to identify him, she just takes him out with nothing. Here's how that went:

Me: He's a very skittish dog who runs away if something scares him, can you please at least put his collar on him so if somebody finds him they'll know where he belongs?

Her: I'M ALWAYS THE ONE WHO TAKES HIM OUT (she's not)!!!!!!! YOU NEVER DO ANYTHING FOR HIM (I do)!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Like, I just don't want to lose my dog. I don't think there is a sane person who could argue with putting a name tag on a dog. When I take him out I put a leash on him, he does his thing and we come back inside.

I'm at the point where I can't even talk to her because I'm so sick of the bullshit. I make dinner and I don't tell her it's ready or even offer her any, I just leave it on the counter in case she wants to eat it. I know that me making dinner and setting a place for her at the table will be taken as some sort of insult and I just don't want to deal with it.

There is literally nothing I can do or say that doesn't end up with her taking offense and yelling at me. If I clean the kitchen it means I think she's a woman who doesn't know how to keep a clean kitchen. If I ask her if she bought toothpaste recently it's not because I want to know if we need toothpaste it's because I think she's a woman who never buys things we need. If I send her flowers at work I'm an asshole who thinks that sending flowers will make up for all of the horrible shit I do like asking if we have toothpaste. One time she literally left me and moved back in with her parents because I... CLEANED THE KITCHEN!!!!!

She has this habit of taking out one of our dogs without a leash or collar to identify him, she just takes him out with nothing. Here's how that went:

Me: He's a very skittish dog who runs away if something scares him, can you please at least put his collar on him so if somebody finds him they'll know where he belongs?

Her: I'M ALWAYS THE ONE WHO TAKES HIM OUT (she's not)!!!!!!! YOU NEVER DO ANYTHING FOR HIM (I do)!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Like, I just don't want to lose my dog. I don't think there is a sane person who could argue with putting a name tag on a dog. When I take him out I put a leash on him, he does his thing and we come back inside.

I'm at the point where I can't even talk to her because I'm so sick of the bullshit. I make dinner and I don't tell her it's ready or even offer her any, I just leave it on the counter in case she wants to eat it. I know that me making dinner and setting a place for her at the table will be taken as some sort of insult and I just don't want to deal with it.

 

[dublinblue12]

Just stop cleaning the kitchen mate seems a win win

 

[MCFC Wirral]

A was prompt everywhere because, as a Swede, it’s rude to be late. H got later and later and later… Over an hour was her record. I got upset and we never recovered.

I’ve found it’s quite easy to ask a girl out. They’re often waiting for it. I liked one of the barmaids in a pub so I got her off duty. She explained she was just out of an abusive relationship and wasn’t ready for someone new. It’s a shame as she’s hot.

 

[Tuearts right boot]

A was prompt everywhere because, as a Swede, it’s rude to be late. H got later and later and later… Over an hour was her record. I got upset and we never recovered.

I’ve found it’s quite easy to ask a girl out. They’re often waiting for it. I liked one of the barmaids in a pub so I got her off duty. She explained she was just out of an abusive relationship and wasn’t ready for someone new. It’s a shame as she’s hot.

Get her details, put her on file and tell her you'll give her a ring next week when she's calmed down. Basic sales and marketing proceedure.

 

[Crooked_rain]

If you haven't got kids, I'd chuck her today to be honest.

Obviously it'll probably do you in financially short term but I'd cut my losses and restart a happier life.

Sounds pretty much mentally abusive. Keep living like that every day and you'll end up ill.

Maybe she's trying to end it by being a **** but wanting you to be the one that says it so she can play the victim.

 

[chesterbells]

One of the problems with women is that they rarely say what they want outright - they expect you to guess and get increasingly angry when you fail.

Whether women can (easily) guess what another woman wants I don't know, but men are generally shit at guessing games.

When I discovered who has the highest break up rate of same sex male marriage, same sex female marriage, and heterosexual marriages, I was quite surprised (initially).

 

[RayCTID]

OP blink 3 times if you are ok.