My wife is crazy and it's getting to be a problem.

A was prompt everywhere because, as a Swede, it’s rude to be late. H got later and later and later… Over an hour was her record. I got upset and we never recovered.

I’ve found it’s quite easy to ask a girl out. They’re often waiting for it. I liked one of the barmaids in a pub so I got her off duty. She explained she was just out of an abusive relationship and wasn’t ready for someone new. It’s a shame as she’s hot.
That's code for piss off..
 
Thanks. I'll not be getting into a relationship again any time soon. The last one fell apart when he suggested that if I made him choose between me or City I'd be disappointed.
Then he had the cheek to be heartbroken when I decided the issue for him and binned him off. I soon found that I wasn't at all disappointed but the same couldn't be said for him.
No way I'll be putting my independence, half of my house, pension, car collection and investments on the line just to be someone's wife again :-)
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There is literally nothing I can do or say that doesn't end up with her taking offense and yelling at me. If I clean the kitchen it means I think she's a woman who doesn't know how to keep a clean kitchen. If I ask her if she bought toothpaste recently it's not because I want to know if we need toothpaste it's because I think she's a woman who never buys things we need. If I send her flowers at work I'm an asshole who thinks that sending flowers will make up for all of the horrible shit I do like asking if we have toothpaste. One time she literally left me and moved back in with her parents because I... CLEANED THE KITCHEN!!!!!

She has this habit of taking out one of our dogs without a leash or collar to identify him, she just takes him out with nothing. Here's how that went:

Me: He's a very skittish dog who runs away if something scares him, can you please at least put his collar on him so if somebody finds him they'll know where he belongs?

Her: I'M ALWAYS THE ONE WHO TAKES HIM OUT (she's not)!!!!!!! YOU NEVER DO ANYTHING FOR HIM (I do)!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Like, I just don't want to lose my dog. I don't think there is a sane person who could argue with putting a name tag on a dog. When I take him out I put a leash on him, he does his thing and we come back inside.

I'm at the point where I can't even talk to her because I'm so sick of the bullshit. I make dinner and I don't tell her it's ready or even offer her any, I just leave it on the counter in case she wants to eat it. I know that me making dinner and setting a place for her at the table will be taken as some sort of insult and I just don't want to deal with it.

I binned off my ex after putting up with violence (I couldn't put her skull through the wall), her speaking my kids like she was a Navvy and, generally, being a shit person. I left 'clues' around and she got the hump. She's now gets the way she spoke back then back to her now and she's offended and with a desperate fat Beta who doesn't want to be on his own.

Me? I'm super happy. I LOVE my life, but had to fight through the depression of not waking with my boys.

Your Mrs, to me, is showing classic signs of being unhappy, wants a change but doesn't know how to express it. I was a little like that, tbf, but she's doing the arguing whilst I interlised my unhappiness for the boys' sakes until I couldn't.

Don't pacify it, you've tried. Change tact and find out what's going on, but be prepared for heartbreak... if you still care...
 

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