Never thought I would find myself doing this but....

[St Helens Blue (Exiled)]

Re: Ner thought I would find myself doing this but....

How long and how often have you been spending time together?

This is a good question and I'm glad someone has asked because it's been most weekends from Friday through to Sun/Mon and often involved me staying at her's the night midweek as well. So quite a bit if I'm honest, she even said herself yesterday.

The I need space though has been played today when I've phoned her a few times and had no response so I've also sent a text or two. Basically all I wanted to do was say 'Hi' have a five minute chat and then get on with my day. Is that so wrong?

Piece of advice mate-DO NOT TEXT OR RING HER.

If you want out then get out but as soon she sees you are desperate (little texts,5 min chats) she holds all the aces.

 

[Blue Streak]

Just to add a little more balance to help people consider there opinions.

I met her at a house party, we made out (as the Yanks would say) we exchanged numbers, less than a week later she contacted me via text. And the rest as they say is history.

I was prepared to leave it after the party but it was her who pushed things further.

 

[St Helens Blue (Exiled)]

Re: Ner thought I would find myself doing this but....

Smash her back doors in.

Leave.

and then pics or it didn't happen.

I thought middle class politics degree holders wouldn't be into that :-)

 

[Feed-The-Goat]

Re: Ner thought I would find myself doing this but....

How long and how often have you been spending time together?

This is a good question and I'm glad someone has asked because it's been most weekends from Friday through to Sun/Mon and often involved me staying at her's the night midweek as well. So quite a bit if I'm honest, she even said herself yesterday.

The I need space though has been played today when I've phoned her a few times and had no response so I've also sent a text or two. Basically all I wanted to do was say 'Hi' have a five minute chat and then get on with my day. Is that so wrong?

That's where you're going wrong.

Why would you want to talk to her? In 10 years time you wont even want to be in the same house!

 

[bernabias home shirt]

If its 2 months and she wants space, shes had enough of you mate..
Move on.

 

[ChesterRdBlue]

Why don't you just say to her what you've put here? I've never got this second guessing what should I do stuff, tell her how you feel, ask her how she feels and then both decide what you want next.

 

[colourmeblue]

Its already been suggested and I agree. I need more space is doublespeak for this isnt working. If she wont talk to you straight call her bluff and tell her she can have as much space as she needs and dont complain about it...if she wants to come back she will...question is though....if she does come back how much space will she need next time?

 

[rushts]

Re: Ner thought I would find myself doing this but....

How long and how often have you been spending time together?

This is a good question and I'm glad someone has asked because it's been most weekends from Friday through to Sun/Mon and often involved me staying at her's the night midweek as well. So quite a bit if I'm honest, she even said herself yesterday.

The I need space though has been played today when I've phoned her a few times and had no response so I've also sent a text or two. Basically all I wanted to do was say 'Hi' have a five minute chat and then get on with my day. Is that so wrong?

Piece of advice mate-DO NOT TEXT OR RING HER.

If you want out then get out but as soon she sees you are desperate (little texts,5 min chats) she holds all the aces.

100% this ^^ You've tried unsuccessfully to contact her. Do not try to contact her again until she makes the first move. You will know in the next few days what she thinks of you.

 

[scenecreamer]

Just to add a little more balance to help people consider there opinions.

I met her at a house party, we made out (as the Yanks would say) we exchanged numbers, less than a week later she contacted me via text. And the rest as they say is history.

I was prepared to leave it after the party but it was her who pushed things further.

I'm sure there's promise in this for you. She wouldn't spend that much time with you otherwise. Just fall back a bit, no need to storm the castle. You've been following her lead, so keep it up. Chill out, let her call the next move.

She sounds game. I'm well up for it and haven't even seen her picture!

 

[St Helens Blue (Exiled)]

Re: Ner thought I would find myself doing this but....

This is a good question and I'm glad someone has asked because it's been most weekends from Friday through to Sun/Mon and often involved me staying at her's the night midweek as well. So quite a bit if I'm honest, she even said herself yesterday.

The I need space though has been played today when I've phoned her a few times and had no response so I've also sent a text or two. Basically all I wanted to do was say 'Hi' have a five minute chat and then get on with my day. Is that so wrong?

Piece of advice mate-DO NOT TEXT OR RING HER.

If you want out then get out but as soon she sees you are desperate (little texts,5 min chats) she holds all the aces.

100% this ^^ You've tried unsuccessfully to contact her. Do not try to contact her again until she makes the first move. You will know in the next few days what she thinks of you.

We have all been there!!! I learnt the hard way.