Never thought I would find myself doing this but....

[MCC]

Slip in to her knickers and invite her round for a cuppa.

 

[mammutly]

She might be worried about getting too close. Maybe she's just scared.

Or, she might be genuinely wanting to leave.

Either way, your best bet is to be clear about what you want, how you feel and then let her have the space.


Good luck, mate. These situations are hard.

One things for sure, if the lad keeps phoning/texting and coming across as a bit needy, she will fuck him off. His only hope is to give her the space she asked for and hope that she remembers what it was that she first saw in him in the first place. Easy advice to give, but not that easy to follow when you care about someone.

Definitely easier said than done.
But still the best thing. No calls/no texts.

 

[Blue Streak]

Has she just come out of a long relationship Bluestreak?

Unless she is telling lies (and I've no need to think so) then no mate. She does have a teenage child though (who I haven't yet met) and I think this obviously has a huge influence over her behaviour (and rightly so I might add) as she has his welfare at heart as a priority.

 

[Seosa]

Hahaha

 

[Skashion]

Re: Ner thought I would find myself doing this but....

I thought middle class politics degree holders wouldn't be into that :-)

You've described me as middle class on several occasions now... it's cute.

 

[Seosa]

Re: Ner thought I would find myself doing this but....

I thought middle class politics degree holders wouldn't be into that :-)

U tryna say im gunna b middal class in 3 yrs time?

 

[BlueTG]

Give her the space she desires.. go spend a weekend or two at her best mate's house.

 

[St Helens Blue (Exiled)]

Re: Ner thought I would find myself doing this but....

I thought middle class politics degree holders wouldn't be into that :-)

You've described me as middle class on several occasions now... it's cute.

You're welcome...You are though aren't you? Do you wear paisly pyjamas and smoke a pipe??

 

[Seosa]

Give her the space she desires.. go spend a weekend or two at her best mate's house.

I like it, she'll be back bouncing on your knob before you know it, OP.

Or you can sit her down for a mature chat where you agree about 'what to do'. It may be goodbyes, but just make sure you get a Goodbye Shag out of it.

 

[Skashion]

Re: Ner thought I would find myself doing this but....

U tryna say im gunna b middal class in 3 yrs time?

Nah u frm da streetz blud.