Never thought I would find myself doing this but....

[carlos tevez is a blue]

I'm actually turning to the fella custodians of Bluemoon for some relationship advice.

Just to paint a background it's early days in the relationship and I want to know if it's time to walk away now before things get too deep? Or if indeed she might be considering calling it a day anyway? I'm 37 and she's 41. We get on well amazingly (the majority of the time) but recently it seems shes been spoiling for a fight at every given chance. Even more so she is now playing the 'I need space' card which to me always is an alarm ringer. I know it seems quite ridiculous given the small amount of time we have been seeing each other (not even two months) but is it time to walk before things get deeper? Or perhaps shes thinking of calling it off anyway.

<scratches head>

Its doomed fella, call it a day.

 

[Seosa]

Re: Ner thought I would find myself doing this but....

U tryna say im gunna b middal class in 3 yrs time?

Nah u frm da streetz blud.

Fuk dat shit bro, man wonts some proppa upper class pussy at Uni, getz meh?!?!?

 

[carlos tevez is a blue]

Re: Ner thought I would find myself doing this but....

How long and how often have you been spending time together?

This is a good question and I'm glad someone has asked because it's been most weekends from Friday through to Sun/Mon and often involved me staying at her's the night midweek as well. So quite a bit if I'm honest, she even said herself yesterday.

The I need space though has been played today when I've phoned her a few times and had no response so I've also sent a text or two. Basically all I wanted to do was say 'Hi' have a five minute chat and then get on with my day. Is that so wrong?

No wonder she wants space from you, never, Never, NEVER text a bird more than once.Its the law.

 

[Skashion]

Re: Ner thought I would find myself doing this but....

Fuk dat shit bro, man wonts some proppa upper class pussy at Uni, getz meh?!?!?

U b swimin n pussy. da mdl cls gurlz luv street meat.

 

[Blue Streak]

I'm just wondering if we've (as has been suggested on here already) spent too much time together already? Now for me this isn't a problem, but we are all built differently and I understand that.

Having brought up a teenage son she's quite independent. It's hard to take the advice on here about refraining from contact although I understand it.

Hmmm....

Maybe it's time to walk before it get's messy.

 

[Seosa]

Re: Ner thought I would find myself doing this but....

Fuk dat shit bro, man wonts some proppa upper class pussy at Uni, getz meh?!?!?

U b swimin n pussy. da mdl cls gurlz luv street meat.

Man hurd dem rumors dat they luv it in da rusty tunnal

 

[tueartsboots]

She's been badly hurt in the past and has realized her feelings are for you are getting stronger, she is trying to push you as much as she can (probably without intending to) to get you to do one before she get's too attached.

If you really like her and think you have a future together, take it on the chin and ride it out (no pun intended).

My missus got shafted from her ex after being together for 14 yrs (he still wanted to be friends which was a head fuck) She pushed and pushed, massive non-arguments etc. Still together 4 and half years later.

And those on here that know us both, know we work well together.

 

[skiddypants]

One last shag (make it a good one)then leave, Don't look back, Don't text, Don't phone!

 

[peoffrey]

If she's really independent then she might not be aware of how her behaviour is bothering you. Some people get used to being on their own and won't consider what other people might want or need from them.

I don't like the comment where she's starting arguments all the time. Not healthy.

 

[2sheikhs]

Has she just come out of a long relationship Bluestreak?

Unless she is telling lies (and I've no need to think so) then no mate. She does have a teenage child though (who I haven't yet met) and I think this obviously has a huge influence over her behaviour (and rightly so I might add) as she has his welfare at heart as a priority.

You never know what the teenager has said to her. He/she might not like the idea of their mum getting in a serious relationship. She might hate the fact that she's engineering rows and saying she needs space. It sounds harsh but give her a week or so without texting or calling and then ask her what she wants to do because you're not putting your life on hold.