Old girlfriends, is it ever a good idea?

[jimharri]

1. Post pics for fuck's sake.
2. Bum her til she snaps in two.

 

[RandomJ]

I always believe exes are exes for a reason. If two people are meant to be together they will stay together. If not then it's not meant to be.

 

[oakiecokie]

Me and my current wife of 40 years,this year,were schoolkid boyfriend/girlfriend in the mid 1960`s,but I left school before her and lost contact.
My first marriage way back in very early 1970 was an error on my part as I started seeing another woman and we just hit it off from the onset.Again this was entirely my fault and not that of my first wife.I left her whilst she was 4 months pregnant to be with this other woman I had met.A messy divorce and seeing my first child occasionally was something I will never forget.
The "other girl" in the divorce is now my wife of 40 years,my ex girlfriend from school.
My daughter from my first marriage wanted to meet me when she was 17 and she is now 42 years of age,she became an extension of our family,along with two gorgeous girls who call me Grandad Alan.My wife of now and my daughter from my first marriage get on superbly well and at the end of the day my first wife re-married.
Since the meet up with my daughter I regularly see my ex wife and we laugh at the old times but at the end of the day I suppose I never stopped thinking about my ex school girlfriend who became my wife in 1975 and who is a wonderful mother and grandmother to our three children and one grandson,Noah.
Sometimes life works in mysterious ways and you have to take a gut reaction stand.You may regret it later Guy,but only you can make that decision.
Good luck mate.

 

[TCIB]

I have a little story i dunno if i should post here or not, basically it is an ex from 14 years ago. Seen her on fb and i'll be honest i nearly fell to my knees, you know that feeling you get maybe 10 times in your life if your lucky?, that one.

I was a useless 18yo then and soon lost interest and went off. I still feel bad for it to this day, not for me, for just leaving her.
She did not deserve it and i dunno what the fuck i was thinking, i really don't.
So yeah she accepted my genuine apology and added me, saw her face and nearly lost the fucking plot people.
I would crawl over a thousand yards of fire just to see her face to face and say hello and see her smile. I know that is soppy as shit but seeing as i am a generally emotionally cold person i thought it may give you a laugh to see me on my fucking knees haha.

We always did click but as i say i was a stupid fool of a lad. But we still click. Thing is she just started dating a lad before seeing me again.
I will be honest, i would step over his fucking corpse if i have to. I never look at other blokes women, i would not like it. However i am really struggling here to keep the convo civil. The chat is already getting close "i want to like your photo, you look so handsome still" but she can't cause new fella and so on like that. It would look a bit dodgy her adding me and immediately liking all my face pics.
She wants to meet for a "coffee" so if you see some blue down ashton with a suspiciously large grin come say hi hehe.

I may even have totally misinterpreted the chat but i would bet every single thing i own i have not, as i say i know her well and we just clicked straight off the bat.

So i know what i am gonna do, i am just delaying the inevitable and i can't help myself.
I should add this is not some passing fancy, i am totally done. I would stick a ring on her finger in a fucking flash, not even a question.
This is the only warped justification i can give myself for what i think is gonna happen and i feel for the fella i do but fuck it i want her badly.

I know some will think i am a twat for this and maybe i am but if you know the feeling then you know you just can't help it.
She has only just met the bloke to.




You got any stories of rekindled romance ? and am i **** for this ?.
It won't change my mind even if everyone wants me burned at the stake :-D

Get a fucking grip you soft ****, it's not love its lust. You're probably feeling a sorry for yourself because of the split and the move etc, and seeing her again has brought back some nice memories and set your cock twitching like 'arry in the transfer window.
The only finger going anywhere near a ring should be yours when you stick your fist up her arse.
Man up you girl.

Haha, there is a lust, no doubt about it. Been there and done it many times though bud.
A little extra on top here, i have more interest than just destroying her haha.

I do love your subtle touch sir xD

 

[red 2 hats]

Don't meet her mate, she's luring you in, remember all them years ago, the last time you poked her and you left it in, you thought nothing else of it, well you left her up the duff and she had triplets.

You owe her 14 years child support and the CSA advised her to make contact by any means, gonna cost you a fortune, stay clear or as other posters have said, let's have some pictures :)

 

[TCIB]

I always believe exes are exes for a reason. If two people are meant to be together they will stay together. If not then it's not meant to be.

I thought the same but then there are always circumstances. I was barely 18 and wide eyed.
I am far from that person now bud, and the whole fault was mine. If i could go back now i would slap me and turn me around and march me back to her house. I would break my legs when i got their also for good measure.

 

[TCIB]

Don't meet her mate, she's luring you in, remember all them years ago, the last time you poked her and you left it in, you thought nothing else of it, well you left her up the duff and she had triplets.

You owe her 14 years child support and the CSA advised her to make contact by any means, gonna cost you a fortune, stay clear or as other posters have said, let's have some pictures :)

(loosens collar and tie with a worried look gradually taking shape on my face)

 

[Paul Lake's Left Knee]

I have a little story i dunno if i should post here or not, basically it is an ex from 14 years ago. Seen her on fb and i'll be honest i nearly fell to my knees, you know that feeling you get maybe 10 times in your life if your lucky?, that one.

I was a useless 18yo then and soon lost interest and went off. I still feel bad for it to this day, not for me, for just leaving her.
She did not deserve it and i dunno what the fuck i was thinking, i really don't.
So yeah she accepted my genuine apology and added me, saw her face and nearly lost the fucking plot people.
I would crawl over a thousand yards of fire just to see her face to face and say hello and see her smile. I know that is soppy as shit but seeing as i am a generally emotionally cold person i thought it may give you a laugh to see me on my fucking knees haha.

We always did click but as i say i was a stupid fool of a lad. But we still click. Thing is she just started dating a lad before seeing me again.
I will be honest, i would step over his fucking corpse if i have to. I never look at other blokes women, i would not like it. However i am really struggling here to keep the convo civil. The chat is already getting close "i want to like your photo, you look so handsome still" but she can't cause new fella and so on like that. It would look a bit dodgy her adding me and immediately liking all my face pics.
She wants to meet for a "coffee" so if you see some blue down ashton with a suspiciously large grin come say hi hehe.

I may even have totally misinterpreted the chat but i would bet every single thing i own i have not, as i say i know her well and we just clicked straight off the bat.

So i know what i am gonna do, i am just delaying the inevitable and i can't help myself.
I should add this is not some passing fancy, i am totally done. I would stick a ring on her finger in a fucking flash, not even a question.
This is the only warped justification i can give myself for what i think is gonna happen and i feel for the fella i do but fuck it i want her badly.

I know some will think i am a twat for this and maybe i am but if you know the feeling then you know you just can't help it.
She has only just met the bloke to.




You got any stories of rekindled romance ? and am i **** for this ?.
It won't change my mind even if everyone wants me burned at the stake :-D

Mate, fucking hell, i am in a very similar circumstance, with the girl who i have probably got on best with, out of every woman i have ever met. I actually have never been with anyone else who i could just be with, be it just sitting in silence, telling each other things that we hadnt told a soul and for me a biggy actually not going out of my mind and wanting to kill them, i get to a point with some of my dearest family and friends that i have to get away or i will kill them or at least say something bad, but not her. We lived together, besties and flat mates only, did everything together. Things got messy between us when sex got involved, we got together, then didnt, then did, then we had a huge row over stupid things, things were said that couldnt be unsaid and stubbornness (mainly hers as I am a forgiving type) got in the way. We have many mutual friends, her best mate and my best mate are married for example, but for 10 years we did a very good job of avoiding each other. At her best mate's dad funeral we bumped into each other and we had a good chat, felt like old times and a couple of month later i found her number randomly when clearing through some old papers. So i took a punt it was the same one and it was. We've been texting each other ever since and kept promising to meet up (she has just come out of a messy relationship and her ex is a bit unhinged). Well on Friday we met up and things have stepped up, they are looking like stepping up again, and as i said to an illustrious member of this board on Sunday night, I'm now at the point of either stepping off or jumping in with both feet. I'm in a strange place, a real cross roads in my life, I want to be with her and I am 95% certain she wants to be with me, but I cant do a half measure and just see how it goes (I really wish i could) there are too many external factors getting in the way, to use a gambling parlance - its either all in or fold. What I can tell you is history isnt one of the things that will influence my next step. Everything must be assessed in the here and now, the past is just that, the past, no point going over it, especially as it doesnt effect the here and now, how you feel now is what matters.

She wouldnt be meeting you for coffee without a spark, she will be thinking something similar to you, what you have to do is say forget the past, lets deal with now, if she cant, walk away, there is no point. As its a new relationship she's in, dont dawdle get in there my son, fuck the other bloke, he's not your mate or anything, there is no reason why not to. Alls fair in love and war and all that.

To steal a quote from one of our favourite shows - Whats dead may never die...

If you are in need of anymore cliches just let me know, oh and yes you are a ****, but thats another matter entirely. GET IN THERE MY SON.

 

[RandomJ]

I always believe exes are exes for a reason. If two people are meant to be together they will stay together. If not then it's not meant to be.

I thought the same but then there are always circumstances. I was barely 18 and wide eyed.
I am far from that person now bud, and the whole fault was mine. If i could go back now i would slap me and turn me around and march me back to her house. I would break my legs when i got their also for good measure.

Hope it works out for you mate.

 

[TCIB]

Cheers matey. lol Paul i was thinking this is straight out of some womans dreamy love story type book.

Now for her older son to turn out to be mine or something...even though she had him before i met her back then even.