metalblue
Well-Known Member
It is a question of aspiration. Your daughter aspired, or did aspire to be a MUA (as it’s known in showbiz), and if the fee for the training was £3.5k, no doubt the money would have been found, just as people who aspire to go to university find much larger fees.
If people aspire to be a truck driver than finding the fee will be less of an obstacle and I’m happy for them. Trouble is, no one aspires be a truck driver. They aspire to be doctors, nurses, journalists, YouTube stars. They may end up working in the local Estate Agents and find they enjoy it, but no one is aspiring to become an Estate Agent either. But office life can be fun, it’s regular hours and you are not having to take a shit by the roadside.
Oh, is it okay to take the piss out of Estate Agents or is that more ‘beneath me‘ snootiness?
Actually, I’ll change it, as I started out as an Insurance Broker after school, and no one is aspiring to be one of those either.
And no, I didn’t go to university, but I am happy and delighted for as many youngsters to do so, dream big and not require them to be conscripted in as emergency lorry drivers. Unless of course that is their big dream, in which case they are in luck.
I didn’t aspire to do what I do exactly. I didn’t go to uni but found a had a hidden talent for blagging and bagged a job in commodity trading, learnt everything I could from the old hands and have managed to have a career in it by repeating the same 10 things in different ways for more years than I care to remember. I was lucky, there is zero chance today of any youngster getting into this gig the way I did or having the exposure I did.
But that’s the crux of the thing isn’t it? Everyone “thinks” they need to go to uni these days - so many employers demand it so kids dutifully go off and get one. You don’t need a degree to do my job in the slightest but yet banks insist on one before they’ll even look at your CV. Kids don’t get that chance to try out being a truck driver and if they don’t like it become a commodity broker the next week, they basically have to map out their lives from the age of 14…who amongst us had a clue what we wanted to do at 14? some sure but they’ll be in the minority.