Possible Work Place flirting

What age are you? Are you attracted to her? If you think she is too old for you and you have no intention for a long term thing, then I would say you have to tell her. As long as you are honest she will have a choice wether she wants to have a friend's with benefits thing. Remember she has feelings, so don't be a **** and bring her pain by lying to get her into bed by making her think you want to have a relationship. You don't have to be a lying **** to get sex. Talk to her. You said you be been out a few times, address the elephant in the room and deal with it.
Thanks for the response. I am 31. I really don’t want any kind of relationship with her. Not because she is 54 but because I don’t see her that way. I have gone out with her twice because she is my colleague but I really don’t know if she is looking for something more. I don’t want to be rude to her by saying no all the time.
Btw she is a hard core trump supporter and a conspiracy theorist. Although that’s not the reason why I don’t like her in that way.
 
Hang on, weren't you the one with the "friend" being stalked by an indian girl who was then turning up at your house or something?
How did that work out btw cannot remember

You seem to get yourself in some unique situations when it comes to women.

Anyway to answer your question, just mention jokingly next time you are out about it being a date, if she intimates that it is then you never know she may let you finger her between courses
Yes I was the one with the friend. She didn’t turn up at my house. She did at his. Thankfully it seems she has moved on.
 
Okay so I am in a weird situation right now. I joined a company 2 years back and things have been going good except for one thing. There is a lady who is around 54 years of age in our office. She has been single her whole life. Few months back she asked me to go to dinner with her. I went without thinking of anything since I often go out with my colleagues. She planned on going to a lake where there were park tables and during dinner, she asked me to sit by her side when in fact I was going to sit opposite to her. I didn't think of anything that time.

However, recently she has been asking me to go to dinner with her every other month. I went out again a few weeks back and last week she has asked me to join her for dinner the 3rd time.

So what to make of this? Is she actually hitting on me or is she just lonely and wants to hang out? I am 31 and I am in no mood to go out with her as anything other than just colleagues.

Should I ask her what's going on in a polite way?
8 pages and NO FUCKING PICS!

You need fucking banned.
 

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