Possible Work Place flirting

roy.or.r said:
Thanks for the response. I am 31. I really don’t want any kind of relationship with her. Not because she is 54 but because I don’t see her that way. I have gone out with her twice because she is my colleague but I really don’t know if she is looking for something more. I don’t want to be rude to her by saying no all the time.
Btw she is a hard core trump supporter and a conspiracy theorist. Although that’s not the reason why I don’t like her in that way.
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If she’s a Trump supporting conspiracy theorist the chances are that she’s got more than her fair share of guns and ammo. I’d get a new job.
 
roy.or.r said:
No absolutely not. That’s gross to me atleast and like I mentioned before I have got no romantic or intimate interest in her.
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Is she a proper munter? You’re 31, a single bloke and the thought of shagging her is gross? She’s either a total rotter or you need to give your head a wobble Roy. Does she like gravy on her chips?
 
roy.or.r said:
Okay so I am in a weird situation right now. I joined a company 2 years back and things have been going good except for one thing. There is a lady who is around 54 years of age in our office. She has been single her whole life. Few months back she asked me to go to dinner with her. I went without thinking of anything since I often go out with my colleagues. She planned on going to a lake where there were park tables and during dinner, she asked me to sit by her side when in fact I was going to sit opposite to her. I didn't think of anything that time.

However, recently she has been asking me to go to dinner with her every other month. I went out again a few weeks back and last week she has asked me to join her for dinner the 3rd time.

So what to make of this? Is she actually hitting on me or is she just lonely and wants to hang out? I am 31 and I am in no mood to go out with her as anything other than just colleagues.

Should I ask her what's going on in a polite way?
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Do you pay everytime? Sorry not read the whole thread, if you do she probably thinks you’re a bit of a mug
 
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