Should I confess

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city5189

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So basically we've recently moved house to a lovely area.wife and kids love it,
Not seen any neighbours yet but wife has spoke to them, anyway putting the bins out last night spotted next door neighbour and it's only a girl I dated back just before I got with currant wife,
This wouldn't be a problem but we split up after she discovered I cheated with her mate,I know but I twas young and dumb.
At this point I should add wife is batshit crazy about ex girlfriends of mine, ( you all know what woman are like)
Should I tell her and have to deal with ear ache for next god knows how long or keep quiet and hope ex keeps her mouth shut.
 
city5189 said:
So basically we've recently moved house to a lovely area.wife and kids love it,
Not seen any neighbours yet but wife has spoke to them, anyway putting the bins out last night spotted next door neighbour and it's only a girl I dated back just before I got with currant wife,
This wouldn't be a problem but we split up after she discovered I cheated with her mate,I know but I twas young and dumb.
At this point I should add wife is batshit crazy about ex girlfriends of mine, ( you all know what woman are like)
Should I tell her and have to deal with ear ache for next god knows how long or keep quiet and hope ex keeps her mouth shut.
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You’ve got good raisins to be worried…
 
On behalf of all Bluemooners, set a camera on record and film your confession and the aftermath.
At least we will get a giggle out of your misfortune.

TBH in this instance you can't do right for doing wrong and it is a lose - lose situation and I wouldn't want to be in your shoes.

You could play the silence card and if it ever comes out you tell your wife that you never noticed and you didn't recognise her, saying it was just a fling and nothing serious. You've never spent a second thinking about her since being with your wife.

Good Luck!
 
city5189 said:
So basically we've recently moved house to a lovely area.wife and kids love it,
Not seen any neighbours yet but wife has spoke to them, anyway putting the bins out last night spotted next door neighbour and it's only a girl I dated back just before I got with currant wife,
This wouldn't be a problem but we split up after she discovered I cheated with her mate,I know but I twas young and dumb.
At this point I should add wife is batshit crazy about ex girlfriends of mine, ( you all know what woman are like)
Should I tell her and have to deal with ear ache for next god knows how long or keep quiet and hope ex keeps her mouth shut.
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If you're not tempted by your ex, why bother telling your wife? It happened before her (unless it didn't), so what's the problem?

Maybe speak to your ex, privately, and let her know your wife is a nut job. That way she'll ignore you completely.
 
Tough one.

You could leave it for now, just stay ignorant and pretend like you've never even seen her since moving in, unless you mentioned you saw the neighbour already. Problem is that's only gonna buy you a bit of time.

I'd say just be honest. If your missus finds out she's your ex and you didn't bother to mention it, then you're gonna get grilled about why you hid it.

If you're up front and honest, then the ball is in your missus' court in terms of how she deals with it. You've done all you can do. Of course that might make her paranoid but she's gonna be paranoid anyway if she finds out another way.

Although, if you ex is living with a partner, there's a good chance she won't wanna bring it up either, so everyone might just stay quiet.

So I'll say, if your ex is living with a husband or boyfriend next door, then gamble on nobody saying anything. I think it's a decent bet.

If she's living there and single, get it out of the way and just be honest.
 
city5189 said:
So basically we've recently moved house to a lovely area.wife and kids love it,
Not seen any neighbours yet but wife has spoke to them, anyway putting the bins out last night spotted next door neighbour and it's only a girl I dated back just before I got with currant wife,
This wouldn't be a problem but we split up after she discovered I cheated with her mate,I know but I twas young and dumb.
At this point I should add wife is batshit crazy about ex girlfriends of mine, ( you all know what woman are like)
Should I tell her and have to deal with ear ache for next god knows how long or keep quiet and hope ex keeps her mouth shut.
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Just a few questions please.

Is your ex next door neighbour on her own or with a fella?

Did you pound this ex next door neighbour or was it just a few dates & a snog?

Has the ex next door neighbour got bigger tit’s?

As per other posters, we needs pics of both women involved (a pic of the 3rd women would be a bonus)
 
city5189 said:
So basically we've recently moved house to a lovely area.wife and kids love it,
Not seen any neighbours yet but wife has spoke to them, anyway putting the bins out last night spotted next door neighbour and it's only a girl I dated back just before I got with currant wife,
This wouldn't be a problem but we split up after she discovered I cheated with her mate,I know but I twas young and dumb.
At this point I should add wife is batshit crazy about ex girlfriends of mine, ( you all know what woman are like)
Should I tell her and have to deal with ear ache for next god knows how long or keep quiet and hope ex keeps her mouth shut.
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it's up to you flour.If you really feel the kneed to tell the missus.That's your call :-)
 
Definitely keep quiet and don't mention her.
Can imagine the next time you have a row and your missus shouts well fcuk off back round to Sarah's house then and see if she puts up with your bullshit
 
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