For people to make a sacrifice of any kind they need to believe it'll be worth it in the end (for them or for their children); they also need to believe it's in common cause and that we're in it together.
Self sacrifice doesn’t always have to be in the common cause. However, bring a productive member of society is a common cause that also pays off for the individual, it’s a twofer!
And, the thing about sacrifice is that, yes, you do want to believe it will result in a better tomorrow, but we don’t get to decide the future, so not all sacrifice pays off. That’s all part of life.
For the last 40 odd years we've been constantly bombarded with the idea that the individual is much much more important than the collective and that the acquisition of material wealth is the mark of success rather than any other aspect of character.
Swallowing political doctrine as a substitute for self-belief and thinking for oneself is a bit of a cop out. Yes, the world owes you nothing and you’re expected to become self-sufficient and have pride in taking care of yourself and loved ones, but the social safety net provided in the UK is an eye wateringly generous back stop that should help you succeed, not pull you back from the effort.
Do YOU believe that “material wealth” is the mark of success? Or, is it the love of a good man/woman? The respect of your peers? A solid and reliable friend group?
Sure, there is a small element of material wealth associated with success, if you believe the financial security of your family is a goal, but it’s not all about flash, as I’ve stated previously. Indeed, I think the 24/7/365 diet of “reality TV” and entertainment “culture” is a disease that’s killing brains and lives in Britain. The fact that Big Brother and I’m a celebrity get me out of here, and the like, are so popular speaks to the slow death of whatever culture there remains. Lad culture is yet another disease, but what’s the cure, and did politics create that disease?
As assets have massively outpaced labour we've also shown people that hard work and sacrifice typically won't get you your reward, it'll mostly enrich someone who is already wealthy. We've encouraged people to think of themselves as a brand and told them it's about selling themselves rather than giving of themselves. We've promoted bullshitters and blusterers and made just getting on with it deeply unfashionable. We've introduced technology that is explicitly designed to biologically trigger short term instant gratification in preference to anything more substantive, and made it endemic in everyday life just so a small number of people can become exceptionally rich.
Nah, that’s all a bunch of swallowed bollocks that soft minds use as an excuse for getting up, going to work, living within your means and saving a few bob for tomorrow!
People need to get their heads out of their arses and realize the people who win the life lottery actually worked to buy the ticket…it didn’t just happen for 99% of them!
And don’t get me started on the Kardashianization of the face (and body) of the British female! WTAF???
And then we wonder why there's probably going to be pushback to national service? Really?
Again, it’s a mindset. That mindset can change lives…or it can give the middle finger to everything in life. Choices.
If young people don't believe their country is worth fighting for or don't feel like they have a sufficient stake in that country to make it worth it, yes it could say something about them but maybe it says more about the country and society we've become?
Those young people are clueless and destined for the scrap heap of society. Maybe some positive change would help them get ahead, because what they’re doing and saying isn’t working for them, is it?!
The country and the society IS THEM TOMORROW. It us generations of “fuck this got a lark” attitudes that put Britain where it is…and yet tomorrow they’ll be blaming everyone else AGAIN!!
People need to buck the fuck up and take some personal responsibility for what they do 24/7/365 and stop bowling the world for their lives. And, if they need some perspective on how good they have it, maybe they could read a fucking book about life outside the First World Europe they were born into!
Most in Britain already won the genetic and geographic lottery, but the prize just wasn’t as big as they wanted, because they saw someone else on their £1,000 phone has more.
Boo fucking hoo!