During the last few months, I've lost two very close people to me. One was a relative and the other a good friend. Sadly, and wrongly on my behalf, I never got the chance to tell them how much they meant to me, as they were both taken suddenly. I'm considering seeing a spiritualist to hopefully get 'in touch' with them, so I can say the things that got left unsaid. Maybe part of me wants some kind of proof that the end is not the end, and their happy in whatever place they are, part of me wants to say 'thank you for everything', and a little bit of me, thinks I'm being a dickhead. Has anyone used a spiritualist and found it a help or should I let them rest in peace and treasure the memories? Thanks.