southern muppet said:paying to enter a swinging club = paying for sex
paying an escort/call girl = paying for sex
but would threads about them be received the same way on here?
not that I have any objection to either, at all, just something to ponder.
Not all swinging clubs you pay for. Some you are asked to make a donation as there are drinks provided and a venue hired and clean bedding, condoms, towels etc all which need handling. Someone has to cover these costs.
There are some where you do pay and they call them swingers clubs but they are glorified brothels. Stunning ladies but I walked out of one of these Turkish friend I work with goes to one every Friday with a bunch of other guys from the building.
Paying an escort is more one on one swinging involves multiple partners.