Josh Blue said:Ticket For Schalke said:Go see counselling if its people you need to talk to Bob, maybe i was out of order but my best mate is going through a divorce at the Mo, for no reason she's not letting him see his child, no one knows, he's paying through his nose for a good solicitor, and he's keeping his head up.
Horses for courses though isn't it mate? Everyone is different and so is every situation. Your friend is obviously a strong person but just because Bob is soft I dont think there was any need to pisstake, bully, laugh at and generally be abit of a dick, all for your own amusement. A "Sorry Bob" wouldn't go a miss IMO.
Ticket For Schalke said:Josh Blue said:Ticket For Schalke said:Go see counselling if its people you need to talk to Bob, maybe i was out of order but my best mate is going through a divorce at the Mo, for no reason she's not letting him see his child, no one knows, he's paying through his nose for a good solicitor, and he's keeping his head up.
Horses for courses though isn't it mate? Everyone is different and so is every situation. Your friend is obviously a strong person but just because Bob is soft I dont think there was any need to pisstake, bully, laugh at and generally be abit of a dick, all for your own amusement. A "Sorry Bob" wouldn't go a miss IMO.
Pipe down, how would Bob know if he was strong or not, afterall this is his first time, its after the aftermath you reflect and think, yer man.
But i do find coming on an internet forum to discuss your problems a bit strange, why not just pm a few people, then it wouldnt be out in the open and you would get a lot more serious answers.
Josh Blue said:Ticket For Schalke said:Josh Blue said:Horses for courses though isn't it mate? Everyone is different and so is every situation. Your friend is obviously a strong person but just because Bob is soft I dont think there was any need to pisstake, bully, laugh at and generally be abit of a dick, all for your own amusement. A "Sorry Bob" wouldn't go a miss IMO.
Pipe down, how would Bob know if he was strong or not, afterall this is his first time, its after the aftermath you reflect and think, yer man.
But i do find coming on an internet forum to discuss your problems a bit strange, why not just pm a few people, then it wouldnt be out in the open and you would get a lot more serious answers.
Was just trying to help you aswell as Bob mate.
MCFC BOB said:Okay, I think it's time to let this thread go. People are falling out and I don't want that.
I've written her a letter basically explaining that I still love her, while explaining that if we can't get back together as a couple then I don't think I could take the emotional rollercoaster of us being friends.
I've given her my phone number if she wants to talk to me again, and I've reminded her that if she looks in the right places then she'll find me on Facebook and Twitter.
I've written a note to her parents thanking them for having me so often and I'm going to speak to her friends and say it was nice knowing them - albeit briefly.
This is so sad and my heart is breaking, but I guess this just has to be done if I'm ever going to be happy again.
I haven't done.mcfcliam said:MCFC BOB said:Okay, I think it's time to let this thread go. People are falling out and I don't want that.
I've written her a letter basically explaining that I still love her, while explaining that if we can't get back together as a couple then I don't think I could take the emotional rollercoaster of us being friends.
I've given her my phone number if she wants to talk to me again, and I've reminded her that if she looks in the right places then she'll find me on Facebook and Twitter.
I've written a note to her parents thanking them for having me so often and I'm going to speak to her friends and say it was nice knowing them - albeit briefly.
This is so sad and my heart is breaking, but I guess this just has to be done if I'm ever going to be happy again.
STOP FUCKING SPEAKING TO HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!