Falastur said:
jma said:
But anyone over 10 who bangs on about their huge feelings and support for a sports club from a random place, whilst simultaneously shunning the equivalent clubs from their area or that they have some sort of (possibly family) link with? Don't ask me to judge that through a different prism to how I would judge any adult talking and boasting (cos that is what most football fans do) something else just as removed? In 99% of cases it is self aggrandising and a 'choice' based on perceived glamour and saying you want to be part of it.
It's mental, in my view.
Was going to write a longer post but decided not to.
Sufficed to say though, one point I wanted to make - I've had a number of conversations with men and women (largely women but yes, some men) who find no interest in football and indeed often no interest in sport full-stop. The thing they often say is "I just don't see where the interest is in a game about putting a ball in a net. Yawn." To them, to get so worked up about something which is, ultimately, so incredibly meaningless is, yes, "mental".
For your situation of you, the Manc fan, seeing a non-Manc-fan's support for City as mental, I raise you a non-sports-fan seeing that your interest in football in the first place is mental.
I'm sure it doesn't take too much to see the parallels between the situations? Any argument you raise in your defence of liking football I'm sure I could reword into an argument in favour of supporting a team from another country, and because they are the same argument, surely that makes them equally valid?
I'll reiterate - I share your distaste for bandwagon fans who are only here to affiliate themselves with a successful team. But if a fan actually manages to make an emotional connection which is permanent, and will not desert the sinking ship - which surely will happen in future, even if it be after my still-young lifetime - then I see no reason not to welcome them in.
I don't buy that comparison. Liking football is just the same as liking rugby, knitting, reading or getting on swings. Different people like different things. It is purely a matter of taste and interests.
Supporting a club, in any sport though, is not a case of 'liking' something though. I like apples. I don't go and watch apples and get emotionally involved and pray that the apple crop this year reaches record highs. I don't have 'banter' with fans of oranges.
I enjoy football (obviously). I don't hope that football really sticks it to cricket this year. I don't laugh at people who like athletics because my favourite sport has done something better than theirs.
Liking something, anything is not the same as claiming to be a fan/supporter of a competitive entity. When people talk about 'their' club, they mean that this is the club that they really want to have success, mostly at the expense of others. It is a self aggrandising exercise. We all feel a little bit better if out team is doing well. Winning some sort of competition. Whether that is a single game or a trophy for a league.
We attach ourselves to the achievement (or not) of that club. So for any adult to go 'seeking out' another, random option when they have options at hand that they have a connection to can only, in 99% of cases, be put down to wanting to seek out a 'better' option.
I know Liverpool fans with no connection to Liverpool who are 45 years old and claim to be genuine fans because they have not gone supporting someone else over the last 20 years when Liverpool have not been winning the league. That they are huge, massive, genuine fans because they have not changed to United in that time. But the fact remains that they are only Liverpool fans because when they were a kid they were one of the best teams. No other reason. I don't know how someone reaches adulthood and doesn't think "FFS, come on, this is ridiculous. It was a stupid and immature thing for a kid to do - latching onto this random team due to success - let's be an adult and stop the charade."
Everyone who supports a team wants it to win. The question is though, why support a team? The only rational reason for doing so and wanting them to win is that there is some sort of preexisting attachment. Otherwise, saying that you have chosen to desperately want a totally random, already fairly successful team to win (cos they are always already relatively successful) is just bizarre. Claiming that you are so emotionally involved in it is ridiculous. It is just, in the case of football, a group of 11 men, running around a pitch that could be in Manchester or Hong Kong, wearing blue or pink, called City or The Cowboys. They could be called or be from anywhere. What and where they represent is not of any relevance to you if you are one of the people making this choice. Just that your choice hopefully wins and you can say your choice wins. But it could have been one of any of the successful teams.
Fundamentally, supporting a team is a form of boasting. Every fan, even those of Stalybridge Celtic, wants to be able to boast that their team has won - even if that boasting is only done to themselves and is just winning a single game. It's a competitive process. Because it is a team that 'competes' every week. Fans want their team to win that competition. Why on Earth, whether you love football or not, would you pretend or convince yourself that you are so wrapped up in the results and competition of a totally random club, from a totally random place?
When it boils down to it, the only reason is that you have decided that 'supporting' this unrelated team makes you feel better than supporting a team you have a link with (whether that is Arsenal, Leyton Orient, HJK Helsinki or FC Sydney.
Liking something, (e.g. liking football) is totally different to the language, competition and boasting involved in supporting a club.
I like watching Barcelona play football. Really like it. Am I a Barcelona fan? No, that would be ridiculous, they have nothing to do with me. I have options near me that are related to me. Pretending that I have to have a Spanish team to support if I am going to watch Spanish football is, in my view, mental and very childish. What would I be trying to get out of doing that, other than getting to say "Yeah, MY team won something", all the while knowing that MY Spanish team were actually nothing of the sort and is just a random group of blokes in another country that I have no real attachment to.