Blue Maverick
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It's not rocket science you look at money you have if you can afford it, I'd love to have another child however my job and that of my wife dictate it cannot happen, the major factor is money and also the burden on our supportive families. If you haven't got the IQ to work it out frankly you shouldn't having kids anyway.Damocles said:manchester blue said:I'm not going to quote Damocles' post but worsleyweb makes valid points as does Damocles. For every policy one can always find someone who genuinely needs the said benefit through no fault of their own.
Actually my main point is that for every 10 policy ones there are 50 genuine ones and the amount of attention that the very slight number get is more about ideology than it is about finances or anything.
You watch, the stories will flood in. But there does need to be a panel to grant discretionary payments for unique circumstances where people would face hardship. I work in social housing and our allocations teams get lots of requests for transfers because their increasing families are outgrowing the perfectly adequate houses they rent. Then it's the fault of the landlord or the government that they have created a family too big for the house and not planned as a homeowner would and they demand to be moved to bigger properties. I can't afford to have 4 kids, my house or income isn't big enough so I don't. Having large families should not be a career. Regarding Child Benefit I would support this being paid up to two children, although this would not be immediate. It would come in for the third child born a year hence so everyone knows what they are getting. It would be unfair to bring this in straight away.
This argument is basically "I'm clever enough to not do this so other people should be as clever as me", the error of which I've pointed out earlier. Some people aren't as organised as this or circumstances present themselves where they have children that they don't want and feel the societal pressure not to give up. Especially if they already have children, giving up a child for adoption is essentially telling every social worker or care team that you're engaged with that you do not feel you can look after your child.