Seosa said:
prairiemoon said:
Seosa said:
Not racism, that's been around since long before American culture affected England. I'm referring to attitude, personas and life in general.
I'd agree with that. But I'd go much further and say it is African American culture, the dominant American subculture, that has had the most detrimental effect on world culture, including the US.
In fairness you've just said what many people don't have the balls to say, including me. While I can't be doing with some knuckle-dragging bigot blabbering on "It's realism not racism", on this occasion it is realism. I've said many times that everything has its Pros and Cons and race and religion are no exception. African-American culture is plagued with negatives but it doesn't represent Black culture as a whole, it'd be ridiculous to say so.
In a country where, for tax purposes a black man was only considered 3/5th of a man because he was PROPERTY, and the fact that it took a Civil War In the 1860s to free him and even then Blacks in American were OFFICIALLY second (third, fourth, fifth?) class citizens until 1964, when the Civil Rights Act was enacted, being "African American" has never been ugh of a level playing field, has it?!
Trying to pull a poor family out of poverty, even after 1964, was almost unbelievably difficult given the job prospects of the family leaders. Heck, even after Kennedy was assassinated in Dallas, black people in America were still being set upon by police dogs and water cannons for daring to speak out PEACEFULLY, THAT is how recent any semblance of black "equality" has existed.
So, America has a long way to go in creating that level playing field white people have enjoyed for generations (ever?!), and to make sweeping statements about WHO is the problem, rather than WHAT ARE THE PROBLEMS that create the lopsided hardships in American society, seems slightly askew. The statistics bear out that black life in America is very different than that of whites or Hispanics. SOME of that might be self-induced, but much of it is a function of STILL being within one generation of the "freedom and liberty" white Americans take for granted.
Hopefully, as more and more families mix, through neighborhoods, relationships, families, etc... we can become more colorblind and learn to judge people on their word and actions rather than their skin. It is clear that road forward is fraught with potholes, roadblocks and potential switchbacks, but we have to keep moving forward in the belief that multi-cultural can be multi-racial to the point where race ACTUALLY does not matter, rather than simply giving it the lip service some people do today.
One generation is a blink of an eye in a society that had grown from a rag tag army of mainly white, rural farmers fighting a guerrilla war with an oppressive master to a 300,000,000 person melting pot representing every race and ethnicity on earth, with one vote each on helping make it a better society for all comers. Let's hope it is not too many more generations before EVERY PERSON, REGARDLESS of race, ethnicity, or any other "difference" can be seen as simply an American, with ALL the rights and privileges that come with that membership package!
I am a dual national, born and raised in England but living with my family in America. There is much to love and admire about BOTH countries. However, there are significant problems associated with BOTH societies....some different, some exactly the same. Sometimes, the problem is in the mirror, other times the answer. I hope me and my family can be answers.
Will you be a problem or an answer?