What would you do?

[Pigeonho]

So all's well that ends well.
If it happens again, you have every right to go fucking barmy.

 

[ono]

But if they're not friends, why are they discussing counselling? This alone suggests that he is more than an aquintance.

At the very best (for you) he's flirting ridiculously with her, and he wants to fuck her. Unless he's a bender.

No man signs off a message with 'tee hee' unless he's trying to fuck the recipient. Unless he's a bender.

The fact that he took the conversation from 'counselling' to 'sex therapist' suggests that he wants to lead the conversation in a certain direction. Unless you're missus is a bit daft, she knows this too. If she isn't daft (and i assume she isn't) she should be doing something to steer the conversation away from innuendo.

As for the gif....if this gets brought up again, and it leads to an argument, ask her to show it you again. You'll be able to tell if it's an actual gif from the internet, or if it's a video/pic of his actual cock.

Even then, there'd be a million other pictures you'd use to portray a sex therapist before you'd use a picture of a dripping cock.

This doesn't add up at all mate. Sorry, but for me, something weird is going on. You're unlikely to find out now for a while because her back will be up. She'll cover her tracks for a while. I couldn't be bothered dealing with the suspicion for the next few months while you wait for her to make a mistake again.

But if you're ok with this, maybe try and get on Facebook again and do a bit of digging. If it didn't log her out last time, it might be because she simply crosses off Facebook, as apposed to 'logging out'. If she does this, you'll be logged on as her as soon as you go on the site. If not, try and type her email address in, and see if her password automatically comes up - it does that on mine.

Good luck anyway mate. It's a shit situation. How long have you been with her?

 

[The Flash]

To be honest this is a tough one I remember one of my friends when we started hanging out she willingly gave me her email password as a "good will gesture." I dont really care who talks to any of the females I am talking to because I am not committed but once when she was over she insisted we go through it. Now the number of guys sending pictures of themselves wacking one out, or just naked or whatever was crazy. Now this is a freaky girl she is highly sexed and im sure some of the guys she sent back naked pictures etc but it seems to be common now for guys to do this. (Dont ask me why).

Your situation differs because you are in a relationship living with the woman now are these just the same type of guys who think its sexy to send this sort of thing? Or are they guys who know she is turned on by this and likely to respond in a positive manner?. Only you know, you know your girl. Regardless of what advice you get on here its you who knows how she is and how she responds in most given situations. What would I do?. In your situation there are obvious emotions and attachments so you really should have played Sherlock for a while but its too late. I dont think attacking the guy was the right response as guys usually try and sleep with everyone.

This is where I will get slagged off but why do people in relationships have private facebooks?. I mean if you share a home, family, children, bank accounts you know each others secrets, right?. I think you put any human being in a situation under the right conditions anything can happen. Women are not these perfect, faithful creatures that most men think they are. They are even more deceptive, cunning and capable of doing things men would never think of. I wouldnt want my partner having a private page.

Not much you can do now so just good luck in the future.

Fuck me didactic! A great post!!

You are human after all???

Yeah, I know my girl, and to be fair, she hadn't responded to his message nor had she solicited it. He'd just sent it on the back of their earlier conversation.

 

[stonerblue]

UPDATE:

Well, having had sensible discussions with the good lady, matters were resolved last night.

It appears that they had been discussing her counselling course earlier in the week and he was taking the piss saying she was going to be a sex therapist. However, both acknowledge that his message was inappropriate (was gif image off the web, not his own cock, allegedly) and I have received apologies from both and assurances that nothing improper was, or is, occurring.

I have also apologised for making threats toward the crooner, but have left both under no illusion that I won't stand being made to feel like I'm being taking the piss out of.

Thanks to you all for your advice yesterday. This forum is ace, and reading back over the entire thread has made me realise there are some really decent people out there and equally, some people whom most would deem a threat to society.

hahahaha.
Great too see an happy ending.

 

[The Flash]

So all's well that ends well.
If it happens again, you have every right to go fucking barmy.

Yeah pidge, if you see a small mushroom cloud developing over Offerton, you'll know it's kicked off again.

 

[BWTAC]

This will appear on every page of this thread until you get the message. ;)

 

[JoeMercer'sWay]

So all's well that ends well.
If it happens again, you have every right to go fucking barmy.

Yeah pidge, if you see a small mushroom cloud developing over Offerton, you'll know it's kicked off again.

i'd say the council were just redecorating if that were the case.

 

[The Flash]

To be honest this is a tough one I remember one of my friends when we started hanging out she willingly gave me her email password as a "good will gesture." I dont really care who talks to any of the females I am talking to because I am not committed but once when she was over she insisted we go through it. Now the number of guys sending pictures of themselves wacking one out, or just naked or whatever was crazy. Now this is a freaky girl she is highly sexed and im sure some of the guys she sent back naked pictures etc but it seems to be common now for guys to do this. (Dont ask me why).

Your situation differs because you are in a relationship living with the woman now are these just the same type of guys who think its sexy to send this sort of thing? Or are they guys who know she is turned on by this and likely to respond in a positive manner?. Only you know, you know your girl. Regardless of what advice you get on here its you who knows how she is and how she responds in most given situations. What would I do?. In your situation there are obvious emotions and attachments so you really should have played Sherlock for a while but its too late. I dont think attacking the guy was the right response as guys usually try and sleep with everyone.

This is where I will get slagged off but why do people in relationships have private facebooks?. I mean if you share a home, family, children, bank accounts you know each others secrets, right?. I think you put any human being in a situation under the right conditions anything can happen. Women are not these perfect, faithful creatures that most men think they are. They are even more deceptive, cunning and capable of doing things men would never think of. I wouldnt want my partner having a private page.

Not much you can do now so just good luck in the future.

Fuck me didactic! A great post!!

You are human after all???

Yeah, I know my girl, and to be fair, she hadn't responded to his message nor had she solicited it. He'd just sent it on the back of their earlier conversation.

and with this she has won !!



get looking for a new bird bud cos your woman will be fucking an artist with a small dick soon

No Corky, she won't, we went through the message history. It's cool man.

But thanks for your concern!

 

[JoeMercer'sWay]

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and with this she has won !!



get looking for a new bird bud cos your woman will be fucking an artist with a small dick soon

No Corky, she won't, we went through the message history. It's cool man.

But thanks for your concern!

i look forward to your " bird has just dumped me thread" in 3 months time

you look forward to it?

what a nice guy.

 

[The Flash]

No Corky, she won't, we went through the message history. It's cool man.

But thanks for your concern!

i look forward to your " bird has just dumped me thread" in 3 months time

you look forward to it?

what a nice guy.

Indeed. I had you down as 'decent folk', Corky. But I've just placed you in the 'threat to society' section....