What would you do?

[glen quagmire]

Flash get on the case. Ask him why the fuck you sending me that? If he replies "well you were not saying that the other night" or something similiar, then you know what you need to do!


He may reply "oh sorry i thought it was funny" then you know she's a keeper and to put the knife away......

 

[Pigeonho]

Flash get on the case. Ask him why the fuck you sending me that? If he replies "well you were not saying that the other night" or something similiar, then you know what you need to do!


He may reply "oh sorry i thought it was funny" then you know she's a keeper and to put the knife away......

I've been waiting for your reply :-)

 

[Cellarite]

Flash get on the case. Ask him why the fuck you sending me that? If he replies "well you were not saying that the other night" or something similiar, then you know what you need to do!


He may reply "oh sorry i thought it was funny" then you know she's a keeper and to put the knife away......

this is the key - let HIM make the next move. get more than one piece of evidence before you confront the missus.

 

[M22 Blue]

Install a keylogger on the pc, it'll record all keypresses, visited websites and periodically take screen shots of any activity on the pc which it can email you at set times. Then depending on results you can a. Do nothin or b. Plot her demise.

 

[MATCITY]

Install a keylogger on the pc, it'll record all keypresses, visited websites and periodically take screen shots of any activity on the pc which it can email you at set times. Then depending on results you can a. Do nothin or b. Plot her demise.

you have stalked more than one person haven't you?

 

[Pigeonho]

How's your stomach feeling OP? You got that gut-churning feeling yet?

 

[BimboBob]

Just message him back as the others have said as though you are your missus and see the reply.

I'm guessing that it's payback for you smoking last night mate. Serves you right you feeble bastard. Women like a real man. A man who knows how to put up a shelf. A man who does what he says he is going to do and not fold at the slightest moment of stress. She's at work now, planning on how to dump you for your girly attitude whilst thinking about swallowing that blokes trouser sauce. You fool.

 

[The Flash]

Well, I found yesterday shortly after getting home from work. I wasn't sure what to do so said nothing. Went to the boozer to watch City and thought some more and thought, "He's taking the piss out of me, he knows we're an item and yet he sends that shit to her". So when I got in I messaged him and left him in no doubt what would happen if it continued.

He has since forwarded a copy of my message to my missus, whining that I've threatened him over what was a 'joke'. She has kicked off at me. Asking me what right do I have threatening her friends? (I must expand slightly, this bloke is an artiste who's done a couple of turns in our local and that is the extent of our acquaintance, I've asked her to explain how this makes him a mate) What right do I have logging onto facebook. etc.

Have I misread the situation or does her reaction mean something more sinister is afoot?<br /><br />-- Wed Feb 01, 2012 3:13 pm --<br /><br />

How's your stomach feeling OP? You got that gut-churning feeling yet?

This. All day.

 

[Pigeonho]

You need to take him for a drive, Arnie style

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l4bzrCy7--I[/youtube]<br /><br />-- Wed Feb 01, 2012 4:16 pm --<br /><br />

Well, I found yesterday shortly after getting home from work. I wasn't sure what to do so said nothing. Went to the boozer to watch City and thought some more and thought, "He's taking the piss out of me, he knows we're an item and yet he sends that shit to her". So when I got in I messaged him and left him in no doubt what would happen if it continued.

He has since forwarded a copy of my message to my missus, whining that I've threatened him over what was a 'joke'. She has kicked off at me. Asking me what right do I have threatening her friends? (I must expand slightly, this bloke is an artiste who's done a couple of turns in our local and that is the extent of our acquaintance, I've asked her to explain how this makes him a mate) What right do I have logging onto facebook. etc.

Have I misread the situation or does her reaction mean something more sinister is afoot?

-- Wed Feb 01, 2012 3:13 pm --

How's your stomach feeling OP? You got that gut-churning feeling yet?

This. All day.

It seems you chose option A. :-(
I presume you've not seen her today, and the shits gonna hit the fan tonight?
Suss out her body language and facial expressions. You will know by those if she is genuine or not. If she is, just say you're sorry and shouldn't have emailed him, (which you shouldn't have if you want the honest truth).
Fucking relationships.

 

[stonerblue]

Isn't it funny how a site set up to promote social harmony has ended up causing so much suspicion in society. I've lost count of the number of rows, fall-outs and fights attributed to facebook i've heard about.

My advice for the OP would be to simply ask your mrs about it. Mind you she'll probably kick off about you 'invading her privacy' or something. Lose lose situation.