What would you do?

**CAUTION SERIOUS POST**

Mate, don't jump to conclusions yet and for this i shall tell you why. About 10 years ago, a close mate of mine was carrying on with some skank who we worked with, she apparently was the polar opposite to his missus, (she was a proper dirty woman) and like a dick, i was his alibi for months. My wife is such a trusting and easy going person she didn't question my actions, as i didn't tell her as she is a billion percent against that sort of thing regardless of who it is. He also communicated with this bird through MY mobile, so that his would never be distubed while at home.

Anyhoo, she sent a text to my phone, for him, not knowing we were not together at the time (he was at the hospital as his old fella had a stroke). I am really lucky i have a wife such as i have, or it could've been dooooooom for me.

Sometimes things aren't how they seem.

Good luck.
 
So you need to ask her. Calmly. With no shouting or swearing. What was the situation that led another man to send her a picture of a penis spurting? Might have been a joke. You will never know until you ask.

My honest opinion? If she's been a bit defensive of what happened then it's a sure sign she's been found out and has gone on aggressive to deflect the flak.
 
Worst thing you did was message him.

if you can login to her account, check the history, all chat history is logged in her inbox, you'll see nothing sinister more than likely.

if she's deleted the history, there's nothing there, then ask your Mrs why he had made that comment. No need to kick off, just ask, which is reasonable.

her reactions will judge what is going on.
She might like the guy, so what? don't tell her you fantasize about her mother
 
as pige said, there are loads of gifs out there but can anyone on here imaging their missus' reaction if a girl from work sent a cartoon of a fanny getting fingered? i know my missus would go fucking ballistic. a full punch to the face would have persuaded this prick not to bother your missus again and you'd have been justified.
 
Pigeonho said:
citykev28 said:
he's sending pictures of knobs spunking to your missus, you confront him (in a restrained manner) and then YOU're the bad one? bollocks mate.
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All depends. Think of the amount of daft GIF's there are etc, it could be completely harmless. If it was HIS nob spunking then fair do's.
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I agree with both of you.

not that long ago sending a pic like that would be far dodgier than it is today.

In the old days a twatting would be in order but modern technology makes it so much easier to send pics, and the meaning is diluted.
 
Although I probably wouldn't have gone for the angry message back (although post Everton i'd have driven round his house and kicked his cat I was that angry I tell you) anyway he sounds a complete bellend in getting in touch with your lass....one question though: how did he message her to tell on you? email/phone/or reply to your facebook message...if it was email or phone you might want to ask how the fuck did he get those contact details....if the other then forget it, listen to her moan, be a bit contrite and it'll soon blow over with the missus.

Good luck blue.
 
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