There are certainly a lot of negatives about Wembley for a northern club, distance, cost, time, etc. Quite a lot of the said negatives are then exacerbated by our crumbling road system and shambolic public transport. Then throw in the kick off times, often so late as to make return travel on the day difficult if not impossible, and it is no wonder people give it up. I would never criticise people for not going, but I am not so keen on people wanting to portray non attendance as something to be publicised and lauded for. Either just go, or don’t, it does not need to be explained to, or excused by, others.
A few of us FOC’s discussed this whole issue of Wembley fatigue at length some years back, after a horrendous 9 hour coach journey home, and decided that going there and back in a day was out, we are just too old and knackered. Since then we have booked Premier Inns with parking on cancellable rates, many months in advance of every potential Wembley date. We have worked out the quieter places to stay, eat and drink in London, and generally it is a good and sociable trip. Winning obviously helps.
It isn’t perfect, or that cheap, but it has made it tolerable and much more affordable. Reality is that cash is king and the FA and TV will never change their policy of treating supporters with utter contempt.