pominoz said:
johnmc said:
Good framework to bring kids up in until they are old enough to decide for themselves
What?
Never ,ever,would i think it is right to bring up my kids to believe that if they did wrong (as all kids do ,or try to do) that they will spend eternity in hell for it.
That is a fcked up way of raising kids.
You have a warped view of what they actually teach you.
I do not remember being told you will go to hell if you do something wrong - in fact i used to go to confession and be absolved of sin.
I did get brought up in a religion that taught me not to steal, to treat one as you would like to be treated, not to lie, to be meek and humble, to consider those more unfortunate than me etc etc.
Now you can say you will teach your kids that but you cant be at school with them or with them all the time. Also, if it were that easy Santa would never been invented in order to try and get kids to behave or they wont get presents. Its a similar thing.
Kids are brought up with whats right and wrong, and the framework helps. I dont believe all the walking and water nonsense but it is a way of teaching.
How would you teach your kids right and wrong - you would use storys, examples, fables etc etc - its the same.
-- Mon Jul 11, 2011 3:15 pm --
tonea2003 said:
johnmc said:
Good framework to bring kids up in until they are old enough to decide for themselves
you don't need religion to bring children up with a good moral compass
Correct you don't NEED religion. It helps in my opinion, as you can't be with your kids all the time and you cant teach them everything otherwise you wouldnt send them to school at all would you