The purpose of self-isolation is explained in the
advice given by the Government and it should be taken incredibly seriously. If you are self-isolating because you are showing symptoms, then we strongly recommend you continue to do so – even if your symptoms are relatively mild, self-isolating could literally save lives.
However, it should be ok to continue with child arrangements if each person is willing to personally self-isolate, and not come into contact with anybody else.
Bear in mind that doing this can affect the wider family, too – anyone else in the affected households should also isolate themselves. If there are people in those houses who are continuing to have to work, such as frontline health workers, then we would urge people to reconsider and put child arrangements on hold until the situation develops.
Above all, we would urge people to take a common-sense approach. This situation could yet go on for months.
Bear in mind that symptoms might not be showing today, but people can be infectious before they show symptoms. An apparently healthy person today could have a fever and cough tomorrow, so don’t take good health for granted.
Also consider using technology to maintain contact – conversations on the phone, or by Skype/Facetime etc, if a child needs to be isolated with one parent. This could be the most practical solution, especially if there are older/vulnerable relatives in either household whose health needs must be prioritised.
In short:
- You are still permitted to stick to your child arrangement orders
- If you show symptoms, follow Government advice – it is designed to save lives
- If you have symptoms but still want to respect child arrangements, then be communicative and sensible. If everyone agrees, you can still go ahead – but everyone involved must self-isolate too.
- Consider the impact on the wider household, who would all need to self-isolate as well
- Vulnerable, elderly or at-risk family members’ health must be the priority
- Use technology such as Skype or Facetime as an alternative way to maintain contact during isolation.
The most important thing is to look after yourselves, your families and everyone else in society. Remember these measures have been put into place to save lives, so don’t take unnecessary risks.