I think my main point is this was easily avoidable. it was gross stupidity that it happened. It is world’s away from a family choosing to have dinner together. To compare the two is OTT.
I disagree because the vast majority who will have 'chosen' to meet up will have balanced risks as I expect happened here. Though I admit I do not know the full details and I expect they will emerge on investigation.
But with care homes and family members they risk this being the last Christmas they have because you met up or the last one if you did not because of age or other illness. It is no easy either/or.
The folly was in not MANDATING rules by the government to prevent there even being the kind of impossible choice families were faced with. At home or in care homes.
Was it right that it WAS their choice? Quite possibly.
But you cannot really say if a care home makes a risky choice for what they perceive as the best welfare of their residents it is entirely different from a family making the same balance of risk decision over Christmas.
I do not know how easy it was to have tested Santa. And I would have not allowed them to go without that. But that is just my view and even with a negative test they could have still been infectious anyway. Failed test. Or between taking the test and getting the results catching this thing.
So in reality both situations revolve around similar arguments to the lives versus livelihood ones of a lockdown.
Balancing both on a pin is all but impossible. No exactly right answers. Compromises have to happen and it is in that middle bit where the balance is struck that fortune and misfortune decide who did right and who did wrong.
For me the error is in leaving the impossible choice to others to make not - as the 'commander in chief' - president, prime minister or whatever - in taking that burden so others do not have to.
Certainly not issue vague advice like 'have a merry LITTLE Christmas' so if it all goes wrong you can just say they made the error to ignore that advice so its their fault not yours.
We need bold leaders with firm guidance in a pandemic. Nobody will get everything right. But people follow who they believe is in control and willing to direct. But if you leave it up to individuals to interpret what is right or wrong then it will end badly for some because they do what THEY think is right and it may not be what others know from the data was actually wrong.