For me it’s a very practical thing and is an ongoing exploration. And if I’m not ‘wrong’ about some ideas, then where is an opportunity for growth? You can speak of wishful thinking and fantasy if you want - but maybe it would be better if you spoke for yourself rather than for me? I can understand that some may choose to cut themselves off from others that don’t believe in God AND not necessarily agree with that understanding. Eventually mental beliefs about God or not come to feel, at best, like living life in a second hand way - and the ‘deep’ intellectualism that was once indulged in comes to feel quite shallow and less attractive. Rather, it starts to feel like there is a dimension of beauty that is in the simple things and everyday life - and the question is how to connect with that, how to live in harmony with it, how to enjoy it. Don’t have to wait until you’re dead to discover who was right or wrong about ‘god’ - there is more Life to open to here and now, why not see where that leads instead?I've read your addition - and I'll say that my brother feels exactly as you do.
Meditation - although I don't intentionally practice it (but read on) - is very relaxing and soothing. Meditation can reinforce calm, relaxing ideas and make worries far less troublesome. Although I don't intentionally meditate - at times I wake up in the middle of the night and then to help get back to sleep I think about things I'd like to occur - it's very calming.
I'm all for meditation and "wishful thinking" as a means to relieve stress. I don't, however, see why this evolves into the belief in God. If your belief in God is entirely passive - that is you don't feel the urge to convince others around you that God exists - and you don't cut off all communication with others who don't believe in God (as my brother has) - then I suppose that your belief is a helpful fantasy - fantastic because there's no evidence that it's true.
Whereas my wishful thinking that calms me and helps me sleep is just that - wishful thinking which I've no expectation whatsoever might eventualize or is true.
