A huge leap of faith.

I’d need more money in my savings than that, work for me at this point is easy to find and pretty lucrative, actually still enjoy work. 55 is very young, that’s a lot of years ahead of you, sure you might get run over by a bus tomorrow but I don’t think I could do that
 
Got stuck in traffic one day. 45 minutes and I hadn't left the end of our road, that was it, it had been brewing for a while. I called the mrs, sold everything and basically 6 mths later buggered of to Catalonia in an old Transit van, bought 2 farms for the price of a cheap house in Sale. Best 8 years of my life, did things I'd never dream of doing. Tell your mate to just do it, whatever it is, he's only here once.
That.
 
Yup. Only expenses are your transport costs to and from the location, and normal living expenses when you're there. You have to be an animal lover though.

Trusted Housesitters website or app. You look after someone's house and pets while they go away on holiday. The host gets to leave their pet in its familiar environment, and have their property cared for while they're away.

Our most recent sit was looking after two cats in a mansion in Prestbury, January this year, for 9 days. We were free to do whatever we liked, so long as the cats were safely looked after. We had a lot of free time to explore the area.

Our first sit was in a lovely large house in Harrow. At the same time, we settled our son into his rented accommodation, for his first teaching job there. We had a wonderful time walking their two energetic dogs.

Another great sit was on the 25,000 acre Holkham Estate in Norfolk, looking after a couple of dogs again. Beautiful setting, lovely dogs, comfortable house, close to loads of beaches and historic towns and villages.

A great, inexpensive way of visiting new places. A friend of ours recently spent a month in Australia. £100 per year registration, covering membership fees and insurance - money well spent, and great for healthy retirees.
 
I retired as soon as I could in my 40s. Lucky enough to be financially secure otherwise we couldn’t, obviously. But if anyone is in that position then I don’t understand why they wouldn’t fuck working off asap; traffic jams, no time for fun stuff, restrictions, petty politics and bureaucracy and spending hours with people you‘re not particularly close to - absolute shite.

We get one life, make the most of it!
 
Yup. Only expenses are your transport costs to and from the location, and normal living expenses when you're there. You have to be an animal lover though.

Trusted Housesitters website or app. You look after someone's house and pets while they go away on holiday. The host gets to leave their pet in its familiar environment, and have their property cared for while they're away.

Our most recent sit was looking after two cats in a mansion in Prestbury, January this year, for 9 days. We were free to do whatever we liked, so long as the cats were safely looked after. We had a lot of free time to explore the area.

Our first sit was in a lovely large house in Harrow. At the same time, we settled our son into his rented accommodation, for his first teaching job there. We had a wonderful time walking their two energetic dogs.

Another great sit was on the 25,000 acre Holkham Estate in Norfolk, looking after a couple of dogs again. Beautiful setting, lovely dogs, comfortable house, close to loads of beaches and historic towns and villages.

A great, inexpensive way of visiting new places. A friend of ours recently spent a month in Australia. £100 per year registration, covering membership fees and insurance - money well spent, and great for healthy retirees.

I have a friend who does this, tells me he's never had a bad experience. If I tried it I'd get a horse or some such which would keel over within 5 minutes of the owner leaving the property :/
 
Doesn't sound like a huge risk considering their financial position. They can sell the house, buy somewhere cheaper and live off that if they need to. Or get another job in the future.
 
Good on them both.

I’d trade not waking up ever again if it meant not having to go into my workplace it’s that toxic.
Totally agree. If I had my time again, and knowing what I know now, I'd have stuck two fingers up to my employer years before. Like you, I remember the sense of absolute dread on a daily basis at the thought of facing my workplace. I just wish I'd had the courage to make the decision sooner.
 
I've taken to calling my retirement my second childhood, only better cos now I can do pretty much whatever I want with only the missus to stop me :)
You just need to find some way of getting rid of the wife now Flook!
 
I’ve never understood why people like Neil Warnock and Roy Hodgson continue to work despite surely having enough money to retire a decade or two ago.

Workaholics baffle me. I’d sooner be relaxed and happy.
Simple, they love their job.
I saw McCartney in November, 3 hours on stage, did every Oz city then off to South America, he's 81, billionaire, he can never spend his money. Why is he still touring the world ? You can tell he just loves playing in a band.
Same with The Stones, Bob Dylan and Roger Waters
 
Totally agree. If I had my time again, and knowing what I know now, I'd have stuck two fingers up to my employer years before. Like you, I remember the sense of absolute dread on a daily basis at the thought of facing my workplace. I just wish I'd had the courage to make the decision sooner.

53 and I think I experienced my first panic attack this morning, such is the dread and depression I’m feeling over my work.

I’m sat here now and I literally can’t function. I simply don’t know what I can do.
 
53 and I think I experienced my first panic attack this morning, such is the dread and depression I’m feeling over my work.

I’m sat here now and I literally can’t function. I simply don’t know what I can do.
Take care, it's a terrible feeling.
 
53 and I think I experienced my first panic attack this morning, such is the dread and depression I’m feeling over my work.

I’m sat here now and I literally can’t function. I simply don’t know what I can do.
I doubt you're alone bud, work these days is almost serfdom to the employer, my daughter has good job, earns great money for her age, yet spends her time either stressed to the eyeballs or just crashed out recovering, no time to actually spend the money to enjoy herself, so slowly but surely she is dragged into the "buy stuff" way of thinking because otherwise, whats the point of earning?

the advent of technology has, contrary to the initial proclamations, reduced free time rather than increase it, everything is done to a tight timescale whether thats really necessary (or even mildly beneficial) or not, I lost count of the times I rushed things to hit unrealistic deadlines only for the results to sit on someones desk for a month before they got around to looking at it.

The most important lesson to be learned these days is the ability to say no
 

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