Smacking your kids

The ones we are friendly with.that had children around the same time, didn't, the others wouldn't know. Don't think it's that common now and the vast majority of chldren turn out fine.How do you know these so called feral children weren't smacked ?
They probably lied to you. Sounds better doesn’t it to say you never smacked your kids.

And by feral kids I mean discipline in general. There are no worthwhile deterrents anymore, which is why you see all manner of little cunts doing what they want, when they want, knowing full well literally nothing will happen to them.
 
They probably lied to you. Sounds better doesn’t it to say you never smacked your kids.

And by feral kids I mean discipline in general. There are no worthwhile deterrents anymore, which is why you see all manner of little cunts doing what they want, when they want, knowing full well literally nothing will happen to them.


If I had a penny for every time someone said that it is other children that are badly behaved not mine I would be a millionaire.

Some people think just because you don't chastise your children for doing naughty things then they are not being naughty.
 
Fucking hell, the ‘children nowadays are all feral’ is such a cliche. It’s been said by old farts since the beginning of time.

Centuries and centuries passed and peoples lives never changed, the speed of change because of social media and technology is at a light speed by comparison.

You can't draw that conclusion because today things are genuinely different, we are racing to the bottom and to hell in a handcart.
 
If I had a penny for every time someone said that it is other children that are badly behaved not mine I would be a millionaire.

Some people think just because you don't chastise your children for doing naughty things then they are not being naughty.
some children are badly behaved, some children have always been badly behaved, some children will always be badly behaves. Are children that are badly behaved all the ones that weren't smacked, no that's just somthing old people are making up. Could just as easily be those that were/are smacked are the ones behaving worse.
 
Fucking hell, the ‘children nowadays are all feral’ is such a cliche. It’s been said by old farts since the beginning of time.
It will have done, but there is no denying now that there is hardly any deterrent for them. I remember Bobby’s on the beat, absolute respect for them. Respect even for the postman, the local butcher - anyone who you’d look at and know they are your elders and are someone in the community.

There is none of that now. Nothing. PCSO’s are a joke and laughed at. Even police can’t shout at them anymore, let alone give them a dig in the ribs and a fucking bollocking.

The kids have won. Even teachers can’t say anything.
 
Fucking hell, the ‘children nowadays are all feral’ is such a cliche. It’s been said by old farts since the beginning of time.
Not in the past 10 years or so mate...
You can't deny social media and the Internet has had an impact like no other generation before it..

Kids these days are truly fucked in the head because of it.

Me and you are from a unique time before social media.

It's changed the world and mentality of the young in ways it never did in previous generations.
 
Not in the past 10 years or so mate...
You can't deny social media and the Internet has had an impact like no other generation before it..

Kids these days are truly fucked in the head because of it.

Me and you are from a unique time before social media.

It's changed the world and mentality of the young in ways it never did in previous generations.
I still think the little fuckers could do with a clip round the ear
 
Centuries and centuries passed and peoples lives never changed, the speed of change because of social media and technology is at a light speed by comparison.

You can't draw that conclusion because today things are genuinely different, we are racing to the bottom and to hell in a handcart.

Mumsnet?
 
Not in the past 10 years or so mate...
You can't deny social media and the Internet has had an impact like no other generation before it..

Kids these days are truly fucked in the head because of it.

Me and you are from a unique time before social media.

It's changed the world and mentality of the young in ways it never did in previous generations.
Like everyone said about videogames? Or TV before that? Or rock music? There's always been something that people blame. And yet the reality, teen pregnancy down, underage drinking down, drug use down. I'd argue the main effect of social media is making people like you think that kids are ten times worse than they were in your day by shoving all of the worst-behaved ones in your face every day. There are a subset of problematic areas where services for young people and young families have been massively cut by the current government, so I'd look to that before social media in explaining any problems. Right wing government love a bogeyman, because it absolves them of any blame for doing fuck all about social problems for their entire time in power. Easier to just blame the TV, or music, or videogames, or now the internet.

There are effects of social media on kids. I'd argue by far the main victims of that are the kids themselves and their teachers, and it mainly affects things like concentration and focus.
 
Like everyone said about videogames? Or TV before that? Or rock music? There's always been something that people blame. And yet the reality, teen pregnancy down, underage drinking down, drug use down. I'd argue the main effect of social media is making people like you think that kids are ten times worse than they were in your day by shoving all of the worst-behaved ones in your face every day. There are a subset of problematic areas where services for young people and young families have been massively cut by the current government, so I'd look to that before social media in explaining any problems. Right wing government love a bogeyman, because it absolves them of any blame for doing fuck all about social problems for their entire time in power. Easier to just blame the TV, or music, or videogames, or now the internet.

There are effects of social media on kids. I'd argue by far the main victims of that are the kids themselves and their teachers, and it mainly affects things like concentration and focus.
I was mainly focusing on things like suicide rates in young people since the advent of social media , which has increased 10 fold in young people.
Cyber bullying increasing..
Kids self harming on the increase.


And don't insult my intelligence mate saying " people like me" believing everything the media shows me.
 
I was mainly focusing on things like suicide rates in young people since the advent of social media , which has increased 10 fold in young people.
Cyber bullying increasing..
Kids self harming on the increase.


And don't insult my intelligence mate saying " people like me" believing everything the media shows me.
We’re talking about ‘feral’ kids mate, not mental health problems. Kids who have no respect and presumably engage in anti social behaviour, even criminal behaviour when they get older, not kids who struggle with self esteem or commit suicide. And if one of the criteria is cyber bullying, well no shit. Cyber bullying has increased since the internet was invented. Just like the number of people getting run over increased when the car was invented.

The point is that people have complained about the lack of respect and discipline of children since time immemorial. And in every case, they’re compared unfavourably to some fictional time when all kids were delightful angels who did exactly what they were told, didn’t speak until spoken to, and called everyone sir.
 
We’re talking about ‘feral’ kids mate, not mental health problems. Kids who have no respect and presumably engage in anti social behaviour, even criminal behaviour when they get older, not kids who struggle with self esteem or commit suicide. And if one of the criteria is cyber bullying, well no shit. Cyber bullying has increased since the internet was invented. Just like the number of people getting run over increased when the car was invented.

The point is that people have complained about the lack of respect and discipline of children since time immemorial. And in every case, they’re compared unfavourably to some fictional time when all kids were delightful angels who did exactly what they were told, didn’t speak until spoken to, and called everyone sir.

Spoilsport.

I think you are missing the point of this thread.

It isn't about smacking or the reasonable suggestion by paediatricians to beef up legislation to protect children from abusive parents.

It's a vehicle for FOCs to moan at the state of the country and young people whilst ignoring any small part they might have played themselves.

Social media has become the new Fagan and Child catcher all rolled into one. They'll convince your children to transition, and turn them into gangs of pickpockets the like of which have never been seen before.

It was a much simpler and innocent time when you could smack little Johnny about with a rolling pin and then when it didn't work, send him off to a children's home ran and visited by paedophiles.

Can't you just get with the programme.
 
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