Trevor Morley's Tache
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As you know from experience there is physical addiction and mental addiction. Someone who is physically addicted is chemically dependent on alcohol and will end up seriously ill or dead if they just stop drinking. Detox is a chemical/biological process and is totally dependent on the individual.It’s Not just a case of stopping drinking though is it? An alcoholic can not just stop. They have to reduce their intake bit by bit until it becomes nothing. All the science tells you this.
The frustrations are bourne out amongst the loved ones of the alcoholic who are absolutely desperate for that person to quit and feel helpless.
I know - it happened to me with my ex of 18 years. She’d end up in hospital to detox, got clean in there, came out after many weeks and went straight back on it again. Her family in the main have distanced themselves from her, including her two children. Her sister remains as the sole person still looking out for her but she herself has suffered so much because of it that she has had to undergo counselling therapy. It’s a right mess. The last thing I heard was that my ex was in the care of social services mental health team and now has her own alcohol support worker. I also heard that she was back in hospital. The choices she has made are abysmal and like Gazza she seems unable to make good ones. Tragic really.
Alcoholism takes over someone's personality. Everything about their life revolves around getting a drink and the deceit and shame that goes along with that. The chemical addiction can be overcome, but the mental triggers are never truly broken.