I think what people are not seeing is that we're still having to deal with a massive disparity of decision making by the officials. The difference this season is we haven't got the wherewithal to deal with it as effectively as we've had in previous seasons. It's a transition season. We've had too many players injured and/or not at peak fitness all season.
Points of note in this game:
Looked to be a forearm in the back of Donnaruma for their goal which was never looked at. Given the PiGMOL protocol for ignoring any and all shenanigans at corners this season, I'm not in the least bis surprised.
Fernandes was booked for his 8th foul, and at least 7 of those were worse than what Bernie was booked for.
The Marmoush handball by the letter of the law was a yellow card, but we've seen those not carded already this season, and no doubt we'll see similar not carded before the season is out.
The penalty shout was barely looked at, yet we've seen lesser 'challenges' either given as a PK directly by the referee or forensically examined by VAR for the slightest contact and then given. I'm in no doubt we'll see lesser challenges awarded as such before the season is out.
Time added on after the injury was around 30 seconds less than it should have been.
That's off the top of my head, but I'm sure there was more.
We are refereed differently, and it's all part of Scudamore's strategic plan.