100% correct, that almost word for word what I said on the match thread. First of all any decision should have been based on the FIRST foul. Rice was pushing and pulling, then had both arms around his opponent long before the ball got anywhere near Raya.
We've seen goals chalked off countless times because of a foul in an "earlier phase of play"; there were several in that sequence. It's no defence to say referees don't give those, if it's a foul they should do and if we start to see a lot more penalties it would cut out a lot of this nonsense at corners.
Goalkeepers shouldn't get special protection either, they already have the advantage of being able to handle the ball.
Secondly it wasn't a clear and obvious error. The referee awarded the goal and VAR then replayed the Raya incident (without even bothering to look at anything else) over 30 times before asking the ref to go to the screen. The ref was then shown 17 replays. I said at the time that they were obviously looking for a reason to disallow it and Bowen said the exact same thing in his post match inverview.
But the point here is that if they have to review it that many times to decide whether a foul has taken place or not then it's not a clear and obvious error. You can resolve this fairly easily by saying that if they can't reach a decision within 30 seconds (and that's being generous), then the referees decision prevails.
The third issue for me is the referees' decision is final, but they're not refereeing the game any more. They're too frightened to give a big call, like a red card, in a big game and looking for VAR to back them up while for other issues like this one they're clearly being influenced by the VAR panel. If they're given a second chance to review the decision fine, but don't tell them what decision they should be reaching, let them watch the footage then decide for themselves. After all, that's their job isn't it?