Love At First Sight?

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IanBishopsHaircut

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Let me tell you about myself...I'm 42 and never been in love including the mother of my children whom I got pregnant two weeks into our relationship

I always thought love was a myth...the love you can have between adults anyway...I love my children unconditionally

I've been single for around 22 months now (Since I split from my boys mum) and have been playing the field somewhat...but 9 days ago I met a woman that has completely blown me away

She is beautiful...on the inside and out and the minute I met her I knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her...for a man that has never experienced love it's knocked me for six

I've deleted my 'black book' and cannot stop thinking about her

The mad thing is...she feels the same about me

Never EVER thought i'd fall in love...never mind at first sight

It's a fucking amazing feeling

Anyone experienced anything similar?

I promise you now I'm marrying this woman in the future and i've never even been engaged in my life

Sorry for the soppy thread...just need to tell anyone...Want to shout it from the rooftops if i'm honest
 
I too look forward to an update. The feeling might last 3 weeks, it might last a lifetime. IMO love become's a choice, it's hard work, it's compromise, it's being intentional, and it's being committed. Long story short, congrats, I hope the feeling lasts forever for you. Just remember that it's common for the infatuation to wear off, but that doesn't mean you aren't in love anymore, it just moves into a different stage that looks and feels different.

*the previous thoughts belong solely to the contributor, any and all opinions are welcome.
 
Great news haircut fella don't listen to the cynics you enjoy your moment in the Sun even though it will probably piss down in another 6 months taking your money and your Dog to add insult to injury.
But do enjoy the good times "Drink 'em in" as the famous saying goes.
 
The football season hasn't started yet (not for City at least)...........let's see her reaction to sharing you with MCFC, unless she is a match going fan of course, then you may have cracked it!
 
Shall I spend ten minutes drafting the parody thread or spend that precious time running through 50 pages of the De Bryune thread???
 
I believe in it. 20 years ago I walked in a pub and saw my first love. Never felt anything like it before or since. I literally was in love instantly. 20 years later and nearly ten years post divorce, thousands spent on solicitors and having not spoken to her properly for ten years I still love her and always will. She gave me two amazing kids and despite the shit she has given me, I will care for her till the day I die. You can't just turn it off. The current Mrs ww was just a tall blond bird I impregnated quickly after meeting. I have grown to love her and now care for her deeply and will never hurt her. It's great - I love two women.
 
Found this somewhere

Captain Corelli's Mandolin - Iannis (father) to Pelagia (daughter):

"When you fall in love, it is a temporary madness. It erupts like an earthquake, and then it subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have become so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is. Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the desire to mate every second of the day. It is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every part of your body. No... don't blush. I am telling you some truths. For that is just being in love; which any of us can convince ourselves we are. Love itself is what is left over, when being in love has burned away. Doesn't sound very exciting, does it? But it is!"
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6 weeks to 3 months
 
Thanks for the replies/advice folks

I genuinely think it's the real deal but time will tell..all I know is in my 42 years I've never felt like this ever

I almost feel vulnerable

And no..i'm not posting pics for you to perv over..respect her too much..but she's stunning..make no bones about it ;-)
 
IanBishopsHaircut said:
Thanks for the replies/advice folks

I genuinely think it's the real deal but time will tell..all I know is in my 42 years I've never felt like this ever

I almost feel vulnerable

And no..i'm not posting pics for you to perv over..respect her too much..but she's stunning..make no bones about it ;-)
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Good luck to ya IBH.
Been with my mrs over 15 yrs and married over 10 yrs.
still love her dearly, she may say otherwise but I must be doing something right.
 
IanBishopsHaircut said:
Thanks for the replies/advice folks

I genuinely think it's the real deal but time will tell..all I know is in my 42 years I've never felt like this ever

I almost feel vulnerable

And no..i'm not posting pics for you to perv over..respect her too much..but she's stunning..make no bones about it ;-)
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I see what you did there!
 
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