Frankly, as someone who voted Remain, the allegations that anyone in favour of brexit is racist was pathetic, slanderous and ultimately counter- productiveand clearly the remainers are exactly the same discriminatory bigots. Or maybe, you two are just 2 of the bad-uns and there are plenty of decent, reasonable remainers just like there are leavers. The remainers threatened people, tried to bully people with fear, discriminated against anyone and everyone who would have voted leave for whatever reason and believed that much of the country didn't have the right to a voice and should carry on with a world that only benefited the few. Not much need to carry on demonstrating the discriminatory bigotry spouted by remainers, speaks for itself.
That being said, I am still not sure what would be the benefit of the supposed "voice" and how leaving the EU would benefit the "many", and I would say the pro-brexits are gullible idiots who have been had.
Just my view. I still blame primarily the politicians solely because they shut down all discussion of immigration in the name of racism and drove millions of normal, decent non-racist people to farage and Co.