Loan him out, then say we want him to stay the following year before rarely play him and eventually letting him go...that's probably how it will go!
I hope I'm wrong, but the lack of time for Nico and McAtee this season despite our troubles doesn't suggest we'll see more of them when things improve and new players arrive sadly. It's a tough gig for our kids and I'm fairly certain Pep's protecting them from the potential criticism they'd get playing in a side low in confidence. People turned on Rico pretty quick and younger players could be seriously harmed by that exposure and pressure. Simpson-Pusey even got a lot of stick for the Feyenoord result even though players crumbled around him and he wasn't responsible for any of the goals.
So, they’re good enough to play with men, but not men enough to take some stick?
I used to get it from FOCs at the side of the pitch telling me “You’ll never be as good as your Father!” At the time, I was playing at school, for my county, for a club team and Sunderland…and I was 14!
Taking stick, both on and off the field, has always been part and parcel of being a footballer.
When I was that age, I once turned out for our pub team (I grew up in a pub!) because we were short of players. Some guy goes in a bit reckless and one of our lads goes, “Leave it out, he’s only 14 and plays for Sunderland Youth Team!”
Next time down the muddy pitch, I’m running with the ball, fella slides in, takes me and everything else (which was considered a great sliding tackle back in the day!). I’m lying on the floor about to get up when he rolls towards me and hits me, full fist, smack dab in the face, and says, “Yer playin wiv big boys today!” 47 years later, and I remember it like it was yesterday!
I went with the manager when Jimmy Adamson moved from Sunderland to Leeds United and at about age 16, Terry Connor and I had a private training session with Dave Merrington. He liked what he saw and next day I trained with the First Team…for about an hour!
We did drills and played some small games and then played some situational one on ones. Harvey was in goal and Merrington knocks a ball into me from the sideline (I played center forward). I collect it and bring it down and I’m supposed to try to turn, get past Byron Stevenson, and see if I can score.
I shield the ball and quick as a flash, I turn, nutmeg him, run past him laughing, and have a crack. Harvey saves it! A bunch of the first team laughs at him, and me, for the nutmeg.
“Again!”
Merrington knocks it into me again and as I’m trying to bring it under control, I get knobbled from behind. Absolutely leathered and I’m not even sure I can get up, let alone walk away. Stevenson stands over me, glares, and tells me not to nutmeg him or laugh at him EVER again!
As I try to get to my feet, Merrington sees I’m in pain and tells me to get up and go see the Physio. And that was that!
Football is a cruel mistress and you’ve got to be ready for everything she throws at you. I thought I’d made it training with Terry Connor and then the first team, but it took one laugh (which was stupid, but reflexive) to tell me I needed to grow up some, toughen up some, and actual BE a man, not just have a few skills that men had, before I could even entertain the man’s game.
After that, I knew I needed to go to Uni and not chase the almost impossible dream without a solid fallback position. I’d seen my Dad be an almost man, even though he was great, broke records and was a worldie at Alty in the 70s. But, in my heart, I was a player who could play really good, not a really good player! I did play pro, but nothing to write home about, and I did have an education to fall back on, which many don’t. Here’s hoping Nico doesn’t need to be smart arse!
When you see the swagger of players like Grealish, Foden, KDB, it’s because they know who they are. They know it’s THEIR LEVEL, THEIR STAGE, THEY BELONG THERE. Young players have to develop that, no matter how precocious they are. They have to hold their own, physically, but also mentally, with men for whom this is just another Tuesday, because this is who they are.
THAT is when you know he’ll have made the leap. Take a tackle and bounce back up. Give a tackle and bounce back up. Play a worldie pass and keep going like you not only meant it, but you do it all the time. It’s about stature, how you carry yourself, how you react to being clattered, how you receive a ball and release it…it’s EVERYTHING about the way you interact in “the arena of men.”
Nico O’Reilly, good as he is, isn’t that…yet…but I think he can get there. He’s big, he’ll get stronger. He can pass, he’ll learn to pass quicker. He can run with the ball, he’ll learn when the ball needs to do the running.
It’s an entire “thing,” and you see it in some players and you just don’t see it in others. It’s one reason I don’t think MacAtee will make it at City. Even now, he doesn’t come on and look like he belongs. He drifts around. He provides little to no impact off the bench. He’s 6’ tall but doesn’t seem to have developed any “football” strength on the ball.
I hope Nico can develop it, but for some it takes time and for others, it’s like a light switch. Savinho…instantly looked like he was at home on the pitch. He wasn’t afraid to be who he was. He wasn’t afraid to run, put in a challenge, take a player on, and take a lump or two. You could just tell…PLAYER!
Nico needs to not look out of place when he’s lining up at kick off. He needs to look like he’s confident and the players around him have confidence in him. Sadly, we saw the exact opposite in Khusanov when he started against Chelsea. He showed timidity and panic, but then Bernardo took him under his wing for 5-10 mins, took the pressure off him and it allowed him to grow into the game.
After 20 minutes, he didn’t look out of place. He wasn’t tearing up trees, but he survived an almost unfair baptism by fire. He’ll never forget it, just like the FOC taunts, the punch in the face, the leg breaker from behind from a Welsh ****.
They either add to you or they take something out of you, and I desperately want Nico to add these experiences to his game and develop, mature, fill out, and become a man in a City shirt.
Early days.