nijinsky's fetlocks said:
kenzie115 said:
Njinsky,
My point is not that the choice is whether to be hetero or homosexual, the choice is having a sexuality in the first place. You surely can't believe that sex is a necessity?
Edit: Just seen your most recent post.
So you agree that having a sexuality is a choice. Which was my point all along.
No it isn't.
Sexual orientation is an attraction to a given sex.
It is not a choice.
Acting upon that attraction is a choice, but it is an action governed by the sexual orientation, which is not a choice.
Please tell me you understand now, even if you're lying.
I agree. However, you wouldn't need to come out unless you were going to choose to act on your sexual attraction, it'd be pointless. Therefore, being openly gay involves a choice.
Which brings me back to my original argument that if you're going to make a choice, there's a possibility people will highlight that choice, if it's different from the majority, and in terms of football crowds, that results in chants/abuse. However, I come back to the fact that they're not chanting because they disagree with people having the right to be gay, just because it's different. If half of all footballers were gay it wouldn't be an issue.