Alcohol, hints, tips, advice etc.

[MaineDAWG2008]

smoke weed... its good for u

 

[TINY]

Thanks Pedestrian. That’s reassuring and I really would be interested to know why it happens.

Feeling a bit better now and no urge to drink.

Vasodilation

 

[patrickkinney]

So in a couple of days time I reach another target on my sober-time app on my phone: 90 days. I'm sure there are people much further along, but it is a positive thing for me.

Odd that it is the 20th anniversary of 9/11 - a day we never forget. I didn't plan that - its just a coincidence.

I remember flicking between the rolling news and Liverpool vs Boavista (yes I was one of the few who had bought ITVs ONdigital!) - still find it odd that Liverpool played that game, on that day, especially after Hillsborough and all that.

 

[Onholiday(somemightsay)]

So in a couple of days time I reach another target on my sober-time app on my phone: 90 days. I'm sure there are people much further along, but it is a positive thing for me.

Odd that it is the 20th anniversary of 9/11 - a day we never forget. I didn't plan that - its just a coincidence.

I remember flicking between the rolling news and Liverpool vs Boavista (yes I was one of the few who had bought ITVs ONdigital!) - still find it odd that Liverpool played that game, on that day, especially after Hillsborough and all that.

Brilliant mate - I could do with harnessing some of that.

Keep it going...........

 

[crublue1]

Time for me to update if anyone's interested.
I'm inspired to write because of patricks great post. It made me think about everyones personal battles, and how they cope, deal with it, choose to share or keep it private etc. I've not posted for a while because i've had my own ups and downs, I didn't want to post about either. I suppose it's become a personal battle, even though I know I could literally post anything on this thread and I wont be judged by anyone, which says a lot, at least for me.
I've had long periods of abstinance since the new year, but i've also had a couple of wobbles.
I miss a decent pint of guinness, or a good bitter.
I dont miss lager or vodka, lager is a tasteless road to nowhere, vodka is ultimately an alcohol delivery liquid, no enjoyment there.
So here I am, i've gone from drinking every night, stella and vodka, to having a few beers at weekend. I've not drunk spirits this year. I've not had a hangover since december 24th last year.
Have I "beat" it?
I doubt it, i'm trying to compromise, reason, and form a relationship that suits us both.
I wont let you ruin me, if you let me enjoy you.
I'm looking for the balance.
That's where I am.
I'll just add that I respect everyone who's shared on this thread, I know it's not easy to admit failings, the more it's discussed openly, the more we feel empowered to change.
That's it for now, take care blues x
Quick edit- thank you patrick, for inspiring me to write, your story has helped me immensely. Stay strong mate x

 

[Onholiday(somemightsay)]

Time for me to update if anyone's interested.
I'm inspired to write because of patricks great post. It made me think about everyones personal battles, and how they cope, deal with it, choose to share or keep it private etc. I've not posted for a while because i've had my own ups and downs, I didn't want to post about either. I suppose it's become a personal battle, even though I know I could literally post anything on this thread and I wont be judged by anyone, which says a lot, at least for me.
I've had long periods of abstinance since the new year, but i've also had a couple of wobbles.
I miss a decent pint of guinness, or a good bitter.
I dont miss lager or vodka, lager is a tasteless road to nowhere, vodka is ultimately an alcohol delivery liquid, no enjoyment there.
So here I am, i've gone from drinking every night, stella and vodka, to having a few beers at weekend. I've not drunk spirits this year. I've not had a hangover since december 24th last year.
Have I "beat" it?
I doubt it, i'm trying to compromise, reason, and form a relationship that suits us both.
I wont let you ruin me, if you let me enjoy you.
I'm looking for the balance.
That's where I am.
I'll just add that I respect everyone who's shared on this thread, I know it's not easy to admit failings, the more it's discussed openly, the more we feel empowered to change.
That's it for now, take care blues x
Quick edit- thank you patrick, for inspiring me to write, your story has helped me immensely. Stay strong mate x

Great post........

 

[crublue1]

Great post........

Thank you.
I struggle between offering advice (which i'm in no way qualified to do) and sitting back looking at posts by people who need support, help, guidance, or just a like.
I'm happy to share my story, but I dont want to force it on anyone.
I'm at a stage where i'm semi - comfortable with my own situation.
To many that may seem smug as they face there own demons, to others it may be insperational.
It's a fine line we all tread I guess.
I hope we all find our own way to be free of addiction.

 

[Onholiday(somemightsay)]

Thank you.
I struggle between offering advice (which i'm in no way qualified to do) and sitting back looking at posts by people who need support, help, guidance, or just a like.
I'm happy to share my story, but I dont want to force it on anyone.
I'm at a stage where i'm semi - comfortable with my own situation.
To many that may seem smug as they face there own demons, to others it may be insperational.
It's a fine line we all tread I guess.
I hope we all find our own way to be free of addiction.

I'd always consider it to be a best endeavours thread - not always based on science but some shared experiences that may be of benefit to others etc.

There is always someone else going through similar..............

 

[gordondaviesmoustache]

I definitely need to put the brakes on for a month or two. Going to aim for complete abstinence in October and November, but will probably fall a couple of weeks short. Last time was from 27th December and was supposed to be until the end of January, but fell off the waggon after three and a half weeks when my brother unexpectedly died. Haven’t beat myself up about that.

The pubs reopening have seen my drinking and weight increase. My drinking isn’t out if control but I definitely need to reign it in. Problem is, I fucking love it.

 

[TINY]

I definitely need to put the brakes on for a month or two. Going to aim for complete abstinence in October and November, but will probably fall a couple of weeks short. Last time was from 27th December and was supposed to be until the end of January, but fell off the waggon after three and a half weeks when my brother unexpectedly died. Haven’t beat myself up about that.

The pubs reopening have seen my drinking and weight increase. My drinking isn’t out if control but I definitely need to reign it in. Problem is, I fucking love it.

I’m with you.

Ive drank every night, probably since around 25/02 this year, and tbf most days last year during Covid. I’ve gone through 2 personal losses this year and alcohol absolutely numbs the pain, and makes things feel better. With that being said I don’t see myself as an alcoholic, but I still see alcoholism as “alcohol dependent”, which I don’t feel I am - maybe I’m wrong.

I caught Covid in January so didn’t drink for 6-7 weeks, and I’ve not touched a drop since Saturday last week. I’ve had plenty of opportunities but always feel I can say no without issue; though I’m on an all dayer for the Leicester away game.

It feels great to feel great in the morning, I’ve never suffered from hangovers but I do feel the “I know I’ve had a drink” feeling. Not missed that.

Amongst everything else, it costs a fortune doesn’t it?!? I checked an app I use which tracks your spending (Open Banking), and it told me I spent £364 in my local last month, and £133 in wetherspoons, thats not including places I’ve had a beer elsewhere. AND it doesn’t include the bottles of JD or Rum from the supermarkets, the ice and everything in between