remember arthur mann
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Usually a result of long running deep anxiety.
Had them most days for about a year when I was 18/19. Fucking horrific, genuinely thought I was going to die each time. I learnt to deal with them over time. Now if I ever feel one coming on, which isn't often fortunately, I can control it and stop it pretty much straight away.
I used to get it quite a lot. Somebody on here pointed me in the direction of meditation and its actually changed my life for the better.
If you're thinking how i did that meditation is for hippys trust me its not! Have a look on youtube or google techniques.
Even better, download this app called Headspace. Its absolutely brilliant. You have a set 10 minutes a day, pop your headphones in and the app talks you through your breathing etc. Just getting that 10 minutes to a day to think about nothing works wonders believe me.
I think the worst thing for me was that I was young and it was a long time ago, I hadn't even heard of panic attacks so really had no clue what they were. Once I kind of got my head around the fact that it was all in my head, I was able to start taking some control of it but as Fantasy Ireland says, it's not easy to rationalise things like that when you're in a state of panic. Once you convince/show yourself that you can control them (as opposed to them controlling you which is very much how it feels) then they tend to stop happening, that was my experience anyway. Once you can bring them on deliberately and stop them then they have no hold over you whatsoever.Until this thread - and your and oakie's posts in particular - I never realised they could be quite as frightening as that.
I think the worst thing for me was that I was young and it was a long time ago, I hadn't even heard of panic attacks so really had no clue what they were. Once I kind of got my head around the fact that it was all in my head, I was able to start taking some control of it but as Fantasy Ireland says, it's not easy to rationalise things like that when you're in a state of panic. Once you convince/show yourself that you can control them (as opposed to them controlling you which is very much how it feels) then they tend to stop happening, that was my experience anyway. Once you can bring them on deliberately and stop them then they have no hold over you whatsoever.