Anyone with a wife they just don’t like?

[BrianW]

I think there's a strong element of luck in the whole business, especially when you consider the way we (usually) select our partners.

Thomas More's Dad, Judge John More, is recorded as saying that getting married is like putting your hand into a bag with eleven stinging snakes and one eel. At best, you have a slippery eel by the tail.

And in those days, women were generally a lot more tractable than they are now.

The only advice I can offer is to suggest you find someone who is a friend as well as a lover. Not that that's easy.

 

[MCFC Wirral]

Watching them turn rum lads in to under the thumb tossers is heartbreaking. Lost a couple over the years to women who don’t like me.

 

[Semper aggressus]

As a single man I do fair bit on other peoples wives who dislike their husbands. Suits me like.
Who is the problem there? Me for shagging them, them for wanted to be shagged while married, or the husband who probably knows his wife is at it because they hate eachother?

Imagine how many you could shag if you had two balls.

Nothing wrong with shagging someone’s wife as long as they‘re not a mate’s missus. That’s a line I’d never cross. Having said that, my shagging days are few and far between now, I’m happily married but menopause has reduced her ardour somewhat.

 

[Stoned Rose]

FAO WW

Men who suffer from fractured relationships with women. This often goes back to childhood and the relationships that they had with their own Mother's, or the important women in their lives. They often pick similar women, in a bid to correct the mistakes of the past.

You should also ask yourself, why do I go for women who are intellectually inferior? Is it because they are easy to get into bed?? It's a short term gain for a lifetime of pain. But you will do this again and again. It is a habitual ritual.

You will always struggle to find a common ground with women, If you lack the ability to empathize with their interests, thoughts and feelings. This also works both ways.

It is worth acknowledging that you have fairly 'oddball' and niche interests that occupy and consume most of your energy. You need to understand that these interests will not always be shared with the women in your life. Or people who have the ability to think independently or come to their own conclusions.

Children will happily show interests in your hobbies, because they know that it pleases you, but an adult doesn't have to do this if they don't want to. You have to accept this and not treat it as a fault in their personality.

Thanks Grandad.

 

[Stoned Rose]

I see my wife about once a year. You could say its the perfect marriage. Not lived with her for about 15 years .

Dark times in HMP.

 

[Stephen Ireland's pants]

Dark times in HMP.

Chin up fella . Might get parole if your good .