I’m trying not to think of my last one because certain things still annoy me. It was one rule for her and one for me.
She began to decline social activity after activity (and sometimes just not turning up) but freaking out when I refused one thing because I had work the next day. When I went to our friend’s son’s 21st, I realised I could have a perfectly good time without her and it wasn’t too much longer until we split.
Above all, a bright and capable person who wouldn’t do anything with it. A complete waste of a life.