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Is it possible to find Emma via social media with an e-mail address? LinkedIn even? I’m not savvy enough to know.
 
Ric said:
If anyone on here knows Emma in real life, please could you try and get in touch with her? I've sent her a PM, as I suspect others have, but she's not been online last night so we're a bit concerned about her wellbeing.
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Bump and can you put it as a sticky @Ric so everyone gets to read it quickly in case anyone can get in contract.

Maybe main forum as well l?
 
Your mum only passed a few days ago, your head is going to be all over the place. Take time out, you will need to grieve. Your mum would want the best for you, so look after yourself, one day at a time.
 
Kippaxkid74(Emma) life can feel so so cruel and heartbreaking at these toughest of times. Take a huge breath - focus on your very best and happiest memories and those you love to help you through. Talk about it, let it all out to the people dear to you or to the helpful organisations you can trust. Be strong, take care of yourself…
 
My wife has progressive ms and sometimes feels that she doesn’t want to go on, but then she has some good friends and me who try to help her see the positives in life and not to focus on the negatives. Not as easy as it sounds especially after a recent bereavement but with a little support from friends hopefully you can get through this sticky time and come out the other side realising that there are people who care and life can be worth living
 
So sorry to hear this.
It is devastatingly sad.

My mum is getting progressively worse with dementia now. She's in a care home quite some distance from me so it's difficult to be there (which adds to a feeling of guilt).
Over the past month or so telephone calls have been of no use now....she might be responsive or she might trail off and forget she's talking to me.

I saw her last weekend and she wasn't hugely responsive but there were moments she came out of her shell.
I lost my dad as a kid so she's really the only immediate family member I have (outside my own, albeit I live apart from the kids now).
Really tough but I've had to think as positively as I can....if I think too deeply about it it can quickly get very emotional. And there are lots of positives so it's imperative you anchor onto these.
Take care of yourself and like others on here, please feel free to get in touch if I can help in any way.
 
Hey blue, sorry you've got it rough right now. I remember we were posting in the dementia thread a while back, you have my deepest sympathy.

But more than that, how about something real, you have my support. Mine and I imagine dozens of others on here. If you want to chat, blow off steam, rage at the world or none of that, we're here. I hope you see theses messages of support, no need to reply if you don't feel up to it, but just know plenty care.

Trust me, life isn't all bad. I know it seems it now, but you're probably feeling rock bottom. None of it is your fault, and there is still plenty to smile for, it just gets hidden under dark clouds. Do your mum proud, live for her, and when you can remember her and smile, even just a little, even through the tears, you know you're getting there.
 
I geniunely hope you haven't done anything drastic. If you have kids they are the ones that really need you the most.
 
Was always a long shot but just done a search for 'kippaxkid74' on twitter on the off chance she'd used the same handle on there. No luck but if anyone is on Instagram or any of the other social media sites it might be worth a search?
 
To the OP......your family love you. If you have lost someone then they loved you too.
They all want you to get through it and live on for them and for yourself. As do we on here.
There are many avenues of support. PLEASE look at the links others have sent you.
Trust me, you have so much to live for xx
 
kippaxkid74 said:
No it's that my mum died 3 days after the parade and I have no one and my sister gets into my head and I want to die tonight today right now as it's destroyed me life's not worth doing no one heard me in ruining everything and my sister won't hear me and I'll ruin my sons life being here and I need my mum my mum my mum and I didn't want to type about it but clicked to post but then couldn't but then did that, see my head is broken.
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There is no correct way to grieve, to each and everyone of us it will be unique. We all need our Mum's they are special to us, they understand us more than anyone, but take comfort from the fact that she has left a beautiful girl and special human being as her ultimate legacy.

It is often said time is a great healer and that as time passes the good memories will surface and outweigh the bad, it has with me and my Dad, he died a long time ago but I remember him more fondly and with more love every single day. Human beings have great capacity to cope with adversity and it is because we are sentient beings we feel the pain of loss so acutely but we all also feel the power of love even more acutely.

I am more than happy to talk to you if you wish, DM me and I will send you my mobile number, I can listen.

Take care of you. x
 
Bluemoon dan said:
Was always a long shot but just done a search for 'kippaxkid74' on twitter on the off chance she'd used the same handle on there. No luck but if anyone is on Instagram or any of the other social media sites it might be worth a search?
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I know her Twitter handle, but she hasn’t posted for a few days (her last post was 5 days ago about the sad passing of her mum).
 
@kippaxkid74

I’ve had a really shit year and could do with a complete stranger to talk to. We have City in common and stuff we both need to talk about.

Believe me, I’ve felt so low, so many times recently but I’ve begun to see there is so much to live for.

PM me and I’ll be more than willing to contact you and get talking.

Take care.
 
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