I think the problem is that he didn’t try to score but unfortunately fluff it, he tried to do a stupid party trick to make himself look cool, but fucked it up badly and embarrassingly.
We can all forgive a failure to achieve when honest endeavour has been applied but fucking about attempting a show-pony dink over the keeper when we really really needed a second goal to put our ribbons on the Premier League trophy - well that was the act of someone who put his vain-glory smack bang in front of our football club wining a major honour - he delayed or even possibly stopped us from wining a major trophy, made himself, and by reflection us, look stupid, and I’m glad he had the balls to do the decent thing and apologise.
I accept his apology, I love the guy and I happily forgive him, but I’m not going to deny it happened and I’m not going to pretend I was happy about it.