Childhood Bullies

[mac]

Let your brother know. My advice would be to knock fuck out of the pricks, before the stag do. Get it out the way, so too speak.

quagmire, theres a job vacancy on the jeremy kyle show, go for it boy, this is what daytime telly needs

 

[pauldominic]

Let your brother know. My advice would be to knock fuck out of the pricks, before the stag do. Get it out the way, so too speak.

quagmire, theres a job vacancy on the jeremy kyle show, go for it boy, this is what daytime telly needs

Nah. Glen's talents would be wasted on Daytime TV.

 

[peoffrey]

personally I always advocate sweet revenge

I feel like that too - but also mix in a bit of "what goes around comes around." i.e. Anyone who is utterly disgusting to others will very, very rarely succeed in the real world. The hardest Kid in my year at School ended up doing nothing with his life and got shunned by the people who used to follow him. To the best of my knowledge, he got pissed at a party and beat one of them up badly with the rest turning on him. He ended up alone and unemployable. I'd obviously had problems with him once or twice but, in this instance, was happy to sit back and let him ruin himself.

It was deeply immature and very out of character but I once physically humiliated someone in a Night Club when he'd got in the middle of me and a girl I was seeing. It was the classic jealous male friend not accepting me so I ended up losing my temper and leaving him a bit worse off. I laugh about it now (he was the most arrogant wanker imaginable) but, to everyone else there, I was a thug who lashed out with his fists.

I think it's just wise to ensure you have good people around you and you'll be fine in life.

 

[Dirty Harry]

I'll probably get slated for it but i'd do 1 of 2 things.

1)Go to your brothers doo,and if the guy who bullied you has grown up and is a decent person just let it go and move on.

2)Go to your brothers doo,and if the guy is still a prick and treats you in anyway like he used too,then grip him,punch him or shit him up.At the very least stand up for yourself and tell him he's a nob.

Theres no shame in being bullied,just shame in being a bully.i was bullied as a kid but as soon as i was'nt a kid i never let anyone do it again.But you have to treat people as you find them now not for what they did then,Remember they were kids too.

That may be right, or it may be wrong, but it's exactly how I'd approach the situation BlueMooner, I admit though I think I'd be secretly hoping he was still a c*nt though.

 

[bennyblue]

let your bro have his stag do it`ll only piss him off if you do something before or during and you dont want to let your bro down, wait till the morning your all travelling back then knock ten bells out of em either that befriend them buy them beer all night drop a few diazepam down em take em down the village and tell all and sundry its xmas and open season

p.s dont forget the incriminating photos for a bit of blackmail later in life, always works a treat this thread is useless without pics......................

 

[BlueMooner87]

BlueMooner87

Having started such a good thread ( I am amazed it got this far without being hijacked), I have two questions:

1. Have you found it helpful?

2. have you decided what you are going to do?

Evening All,

Yes I have found it great hearing other prior experiences and that the positive outcomes. I would also like to think it has been helpful for others whom have had previous experiences of bullying hearing that we wern't the only ones.

I am not going to say anyhting further to my brother, simply because I don't want to put him in a difficult position and as I said I did mention it to him and he shook it off as being no big deal.

I will attend it is a 2 day due to Amsterdam. I am just going to avoid them as much as I can, if things escalate I will just take them as they come, I can't say I am looking forward to it though.

 

[bennyblue]

if its amsterdam make em a nice cup of tea with cubensis mushrooms then terrorise the fuckers

 

[doots]

BlueMooner87

Having started such a good thread ( I am amazed it got this far without being hijacked), I have two questions:

1. Have you found it helpful?

2. have you decided what you are going to do?

Evening All,

Yes I have found it great hearing other prior experiences and that the positive outcomes. I would also like to think it has been helpful for others whom have had previous experiences of bullying hearing that we wern't the only ones.

I am not going to say anyhting further to my brother, simply because I don't want to put him in a difficult position and as I said I did mention it to him and he shook it off as being no big deal.

I will attend it is a 2 day due to Amsterdam. I am just going to avoid them as much as I can, if things escalate I will just take them as they come, I can't say I am looking forward to it though.

AMSTERDAM!
Here's your chance,spike the fuckers drink with the wildest drug you can get your hands on,sit back and enjoy the ride.

 

[rastus]

Confront him in a strong but not aggresive manner. Tell him how he made your life a nightmare (most bullies never realise they where bullies). See how he responds and take it from there.
If your brother wants to dismiss the issue thats a bit selfish but its probably best coming from you.

 

[Laurent Charvet]

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