There are lots of unanswered questions because in some areas there are no answers at the moment. The whole thing is progressing and changing daily.
Some of the points you mention shouldn’t need a grown adult telling another grown adult what it means.
“- clear reasoning as to why its okay to see your work colleagues and bosses but you cant see your family from a distance”
Take this one for example, it’s obvious, you’re not “seeing them”, you’re working with them, it will contribute to the economy and is needed. Having a cup of tea with your mum and dad is not, especially when aunties, uncles, brothers, sisters can just pop round as well with the same attitude.
No government should ever be truly transparent with the public, it’s a recipe for disaster but if you feel they aren’t telling the truth then you have to do some research, too many just now press the send button without thinking.
Also for someone who has shown mass panic on the situation on both here and Twitter, it might not be helpful to not miss an important announcement on the matter, especially when unless a family emergency is happening, there is nothing to miss it for.