CSA

[Mad Eyed Screamer]

To the OP - move to America and then return every letter they send you (the twats got my address as I contacted the Inland Revenue asking for a tax rebate) replying ''you can't fucking touch me''

 

[Blueto]

There are help groups that can advise, but as already stated, you're pi**ing against the wind against them.
They're like the scumbags 'they'll do what they want'
I won a tribunal against them and was told everything would be sorted. 2 weeks later they put a detachment on my earnings for a larger amount than I'd just had reduced.
Seriously get advice from somewhere.

 

[ManuelPellegrini]

Just after some advice if possible...

I got divorced 2 years ago,my daughter lives with my ex and my son lives with me.My ex originally made a claim to the csa,thinking she could get more than the £80 a week I was giving her,turns out I only had to give her £47 a week through the csa...She rings the csa and says we have a verbal agreement and she doesn't want to go through the csa,so I continue to give her £80 a week....2 years later,she says to the csa that all the money I've give her is to help towards the mortgage and NOT for child maintenance....the csa ring me and now want just short of £5,000 back pay.

Has anyone else had shit like this?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.....thanks.

My parents divorced when I was about 9yrs old and a similar arrangement was agreed where I would go with my dad and my other brother with my mum.

After a number of years my mum then played dirty and got the CSA involved which saw my dad on the bones of his arse skint. I don't remember the exact details but the way the CSA had calculated the payments just seemed so unfair and seemed nothing short of biased towards the female (fucking corrupt).

It was only when I stepped in and had words with my mother that she dropped the CSA and normal service resumed.

Can't offer you any advice other than don't take it lying down.

My dad's experience has stuck in my mind forever and has always made me somewhat cautious/scared of getting women pregnant!

Good luck

 

[Ifwecouldjust.......]

refer back to the verbal agreement with your wife and the calculation by the CSA that you only have to pay her £47 per week. Also explain that this has been 'established practice' for the last two years and that during that time no personal circumstances have altered (you've not won the lottery or come into a big windfall)

 

[BigJimLittleJim]

refer back to the verbal agreement with your wife and the calculation by the CSA that you only have to pay her £47 per week. Also explain that this has been 'established practice' for the last two years and that during that time no personal circumstances have altered (you've not won the lottery or come into a big windfall)

He has unfortunately.

 

[ONTHERUNWITHTHAKSIN]

I was stung by CSA 8 months ago 12 years after divorcing my ex, I was paying maintenance and there rule is they only back date from when the original claim was made to them.

I think the op is proper in the dark stuff and will have to pay because of when the claim was made, it's a learning experience and in future only pay what the CSA state you should be paying no more.

A woman scorned is one never to be trusted.

If you want to pay more for the kiddie open an account for when they are 18

 

[ScunnyScorpion]

The CSA as an organisation are just unbelievable.

I have two kids to my ex... Our son (now 15) lives with me 24/7...daughter (12) officially lives with the ex but she sleeps over at mine every weekend plus one night in the week..... that basically gives me approximately 75% care of our kids. When we divorced 8 years ago we agreed not to involve the csa... however events unfolded, she remarried, had another sprog and found herself on benefits (a life she has come accustomed to!). Soon as she started claiming benefit the csa were immediately on my back. I've always worked, not on a great wage... if it wasn't already a struggle paying the mortgage, feeding the kids, running a car, paying the bills etc.... it certainly got harder when the csa decided I should also pay the ex £110 month for privilege of me having 75% care of our kids. I put a counter claim in against the ex...csa pay me £10 a month!

 

[Dirty Harry]

There are help groups that can advise, but as already stated, you're pi**ing against the wind against them.
They're like the scumbags 'they'll do what they want'
I won a tribunal against them and was told everything would be sorted. 2 weeks later they put a detachment on my earnings for a larger amount than I'd just had reduced.
Seriously get advice from somewhere.

I'm actually gobsmacked you won a tribunal against them mate, last time a friend went to court he didn't even get the chance to state his case or even speak, the CSA read THEIR bit, the court found in favour of them and he was dismissed, when he mentioned he hadn't had his chance to state his case, they just repeated "we find in favour of the CSA", eventually he was warned if he persisted in asking for a chance to state his case, he would be physically removed from the court, so even the courts favour them hugely.

 

[SPIDERBOY]

refer back to the verbal agreement with your wife and the calculation by the CSA that you only have to pay her £47 per week. Also explain that this has been 'established practice' for the last two years and that during that time no personal circumstances have altered (you've not won the lottery or come into a big windfall)

He has unfortunately.

One good thing my solicitor did advise is....when my dad passed away,I could get a legal document drawn up which states that I can give any inheritance away....I had this put in place and the monies went into my nieces account....the ex,csa and anyone else can't do fuck all about it,it's bomb proof.....anyone experiencing the same situation,I would advise to get this put in place.

 

[St Helens Blue (Exiled)]

Fuck the CSA...Luckily I have a court agreement with my ex so no issues there.

They are a horrible fucking organisation who ruin genuine fathers lives. I know people who have contemplated suicide