Discussing Religion with Kids

Make him go to church every Sunday morning instead of watching cartoons. I guarantee by the time he's a teenager, he'll think "I've had enough of this. It's all bollocks."
Me and my mates were even in a church choir when we were in primary school. We went up to Carlisle Cathedral and sung at some big event there.

Very nice building… I do like churches, architecturally.

But again, I grew out of that. Stopped going to the choir after I stopped believing in it all.
 
I'm very clear with my kids that there is no valid evidence (literally none) for any kind of supernatural being and that all religion is frankly very, very weird, is a human construct and follows no logic. They go to a C of E school so they are exposed to some attempts at indoctrination; I respectfully discuss it with them, or rather just make occasional comments to encourage them to think.

I am clear with them that we are tolerant of all beliefs as long as nobody is being harmed. They have religious friends and that's fine of course.

For me, all religion is just bizarre: billions of people literally believing in fairy stories despite there being zero evidence in favour of them - and failing to see that other groups believe similar (but different) things and not joining the dots that they different groups/beliefs all have exactly the same amount of evidence (none).

It's about time all religion was thrown in the bin and consigned to history. We do ourselves a great disservice in believing in this stuff, and promoting it to kids borders on abuse if you ask me. We are moving in the right direction but nowhere near fast enough.
Religions hold our species back.

The Dark Ages in Europe was when Christianity was spread and being forced onto populations. As Christianity grew, Europeans were held down and it was the biggest intellectual decline in the history of our species. Economies crashed and our Northern European culture was almost wiped from the face of the Earth.

But that culture was so strong the Christians ended up changing all of their dates to fit in with our festival dates that tied in with annual celestial/seasonal occurrences. Don’t get me wrong, we had gods and goddesses attached to those festivals, they weren’t just scientific. But it highlights and confirms how Christianity is just all made up if they could just amend the dates of their holidays to Northern European festival dates.

Look at wherever there’s a strong orthodoxy of Islam in the world… women are treated like shit, the scientific and technological advances in some counties are slow. Wherever in that region any countries are more secular, they have larger economies, more technologically advanced cities and entice people to live there from the wider world.
 
Surely the best ones are those couples who never step foot in a Church but then decide they want to marry in one?

Cue the hypocrisy of both them and the Church saying they must come every week for a set period and show commitment.

I can count on three fingers the amount of time time I have had to step foot inside a Church, usually for some wedding.

They creep me out.
 
I actually quite like your approach, but sending your kids to a faith school seems an odd choice? I expect it's because it also happens to be the best option in other ways, but it must be a bit weird for kids with atheist parents having to lead a sort of 'double life' as daytime Christians at school. Not really fair on them.
A lot of the times there isn't any other approach tbh. Had my kids in a non denominational school but since we moved back to Kerry it's Catholic schools or get on the motorway.
 
Surely the best ones are those couples who never step foot in a Church but then decide they want to marry in one?

Cue the hypocrisy of both them and the Church saying they must come every week for a set period and show commitment.

I can count on three fingers the amount of time time I have had to step foot inside a Church, usually for some wedding.

They creep me out.
Yeah church weddings are very odd… for a couple who don’t go to church and won’t be going ever again, afterwards.

That you can now get married practically anywhere these days is another ‘hidden’ advancement for this country, compared to the 2 choices offered in my youth - church (bit hard for different religions!) or some rundown council property registry office.
 
The Dark Ages in Europe was when Christianity was spread and being forced onto populations.
There was this slight bit about the Germanic tribes smashing apart the Roman empire as well and all learning being temporarily lost. Hence the whole 'Latin is a dead language' part.
 
Surely the best ones are those couples who never step foot in a Church but then decide they want to marry in one?

Cue the hypocrisy of both them and the Church saying they must come every week for a set period and show commitment.

I can count on three fingers the amount of time time I have had to step foot inside a Church, usually for some wedding.

They creep me out.
Weddings, Christenings, Funerals.

Out of respect to the people involved. That's it.
 
It all sounds fairly harmless at this stage and sounds like they’re just being inquisitive about a new interesting ‘thing’.

I was in the Scouts and went to a church school as a kid. Neither of my parents were particularly religious but the local C of E happened to run the scout group and be connected to the best school.

As a result of that I went to church every now and again etc. Stopped bothering when I became a teenager and now I’d describe myself as agnostic.

It’s not like your kid has decided to join ISIS is chanting ‘death to the infidels!’ every night.
 

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