Do you have a positive mentality?

PannickAtTheDisco said:
As per me in the Gundogan, I get reply after reply if I criticise him for what I think is a poor performance, the last few games where I've been positive barely any interaction at all.

So the fanboys who can't look at certain players are also culpable in preventing discussion and just creating an argumentative atmosphere, and I don't think it's a positive mentality because they refuse to acknowledge the growth in performances and discuss the improvements because in their eyes it's been superb all along.
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There’s an element of competition between critical/negative posters and happy clappers, which undoubtedly acts as a stimulant.

Question: are those who see no wrong positive or passive?
 
In everyday life I normally have a positive attitude, I have a good work ethic and keep fit with my running and going to the gym. I'm pragmatic and a realist so I'm also grounded.

I am finding my mentality this minute completely bizarre.

I have an internal interview on Friday and I have barely slept this week. I must have only managed 2 hours kip last night and possibly 3 hours the night before. I normally sleep like a log.

I'm confident, I have prepared well and know my content for what I need to do is relevant. I am feeling the pressure as this role rarely comes up. I can't help but imagining the disappointment of not getting the role next week. I'm going to try and think positively today and continue my prep.
 
No i really dont. Im not a miserable person. Bit daft really. But i cant help not seeing/fearing the worse often.
its a horrible trait but also expecting the worse and hoping for the best hasnt always been such a bad thing
 
marcus said:
No i really dont. Im not a miserable person. Bit daft really. But i cant help not seeing/fearing the worse often.
its a horrible trait but also expecting the worse and hoping for the best hasnt always been such a bad thing
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I agree, I took this mind set from when I was around 27 and have felt better. I'm positive but I don't get carried away with things or have expectations. Think I've actually been a happier person as a result.
 
Northernstorirs said:
In everyday life I normally have a positive attitude, I have a good work ethic and keep fit with my running and going to the gym. I'm pragmatic and a realist so I'm also grounded.

I am finding my mentality this minute completely bizarre.

I have an internal interview on Friday and I have barely slept this week. I must have only managed 2 hours kip last night and possibly 3 hours the night before. I normally sleep like a log.

I'm confident, I have prepared well and know my content for what I need to do is relevant. I am feeling the pressure as this role rarely comes up. I can't help but imagining the disappointment of not getting the role next week. I'm going to try and think positively today and continue my prep.
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Keep positive mate. Worrying never changes a thing. Good luck with the interview.
 
After a life changing event four years ago which caused anxiety,depression and PTSD I’ve since become very positive in most things.
Life is a gift so enjoy while you can. I take very little seriously anymore including this forum.
Having said that I still bite my nails when we are two up in injury time.
 
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