Do you have a secret?

Ammy said:
It's very important you work out whether you are confessing to something because it is absolutely vital the other person is in the picture...or you are just lightening your own conscience.

^^^ This, all day long.
Sometimes it's better to keep the secret and spare the other person's feelings.
If you weren't together then what difference does it make?
 
bluegirl74 said:
Ammy said:
It's very important you work out whether you are confessing to something because it is absolutely vital the other person is in the picture...or you are just lightening your own conscience.

^^^ This, all day long.
Sometimes it's better to keep the secret and spare the other person's feelings.
If you weren't together then what difference does it make?

Put yourself in Bluemoon 32's girlfriends position. Would you be happy if in say 5 yrs time it all came out or would you have preferred to know everything before you got back?

It's a tough one.
 
rushts said:
bluegirl74 said:
Ammy said:
It's very important you work out whether you are confessing to something because it is absolutely vital the other person is in the picture...or you are just lightening your own conscience.

^^^ This, all day long.
Sometimes it's better to keep the secret and spare the other person's feelings.
If you weren't together then what difference does it make?

Put yourself in Bluemoon 32's girlfriends position. Would you be happy if in say 5 yrs time it all came out or would you have preferred to know everything before you got back?

It's a tough one.

Tbh I find his comment confusing. If whatever he is referring to happened during a break in the relationship then so what? Unless he is expressly asked whether anything happened with anyone else while they were apart and has lied about it, why bring it up.
The fact that he goes on to say that he doesn't want a relationship built on lies suggests that there is more to it.
I await the full story in the separate thread before committing myself further :-)
 
bluegirl74 said:
rushts said:
bluegirl74 said:
^^^ This, all day long.
Sometimes it's better to keep the secret and spare the other person's feelings.
If you weren't together then what difference does it make?

Put yourself in Bluemoon 32's girlfriends position. Would you be happy if in say 5 yrs time it all came out or would you have preferred to know everything before you got back?

It's a tough one.

Tbh I find his comment confusing. If whatever he is referring to happened during a break in the relationship then so what? Unless he is expressly asked whether anything happened with anyone else while they were apart and has lied about it, why bring it up.
The fact that he goes on to say that he doesn't want a relationship built on lies suggests that there is more to it.
I await the full story in the separate thread before committing myself further :-)
I eagerly await the hilarious parody thread.
 
dronefromsector7g said:
bluegirl74 said:
rushts said:
Put yourself in Bluemoon 32's girlfriends position. Would you be happy if in say 5 yrs time it all came out or would you have preferred to know everything before you got back?

It's a tough one.

Tbh I find his comment confusing. If whatever he is referring to happened during a break in the relationship then so what? Unless he is expressly asked whether anything happened with anyone else while they were apart and has lied about it, why bring it up.
The fact that he goes on to say that he doesn't want a relationship built on lies suggests that there is more to it.
I await the full story in the separate thread before committing myself further :-)
I eagerly await the hilarious parody thread.

Thought you'd be up for that gig?

How did you get on at the clinic by the way, you all clear?
 
dronefromsector7g said:
bluegirl74 said:
rushts said:
Put yourself in Bluemoon 32's girlfriends position. Would you be happy if in say 5 yrs time it all came out or would you have preferred to know everything before you got back?

It's a tough one.

Tbh I find his comment confusing. If whatever he is referring to happened during a break in the relationship then so what? Unless he is expressly asked whether anything happened with anyone else while they were apart and has lied about it, why bring it up.
The fact that he goes on to say that he doesn't want a relationship built on lies suggests that there is more to it.
I await the full story in the separate thread before committing myself further :-)
I eagerly await the hilarious parody thread.

That too :-)
 
rushts said:
dronefromsector7g said:
bluegirl74 said:
Tbh I find his comment confusing. If whatever he is referring to happened during a break in the relationship then so what? Unless he is expressly asked whether anything happened with anyone else while they were apart and has lied about it, why bring it up.
The fact that he goes on to say that he doesn't want a relationship built on lies suggests that there is more to it.
I await the full story in the separate thread before committing myself further :-)
I eagerly await the hilarious parody thread.

Thought you'd be up for that gig?

How did you get on at the clinic by the way, you all clear?
The thing you gave me is gone, but the one Chabal gave me is too far gone. :-(
 
dronefromsector7g said:
bluegirl74 said:
rushts said:
Put yourself in Bluemoon 32's girlfriends position. Would you be happy if in say 5 yrs time it all came out or would you have preferred to know everything before you got back?

It's a tough one.

Tbh I find his comment confusing. If whatever he is referring to happened during a break in the relationship then so what? Unless he is expressly asked whether anything happened with anyone else while they were apart and has lied about it, why bring it up.
The fact that he goes on to say that he doesn't want a relationship built on lies suggests that there is more to it.
I await the full story in the separate thread before committing myself further :-)
I eagerly await the hilarious parody thread.

I hope you're doing it this time and not BBB.

Don't tell her I said that, it's secret.
 
dronefromsector7g said:
rushts said:
dronefromsector7g said:
I eagerly await the hilarious parody thread.

Thought you'd be up for that gig?

How did you get on at the clinic by the way, you all clear?
The thing you gave me is gone, but the one Chabal gave me is too far gone. :-(

Internal Injuries? unlucky.
 

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