So sad to read this, my brother went through something similar, not exactly the same but along similar lines, ie, not seen by the GP when he was clearly struggling with a bad chest cough, basically fobbed off. This all culminated in, just over 12mths ago, him being told he was riddled with cancer and palliative care was all that could be offered, he passed away in November last year, still can't get my head round it all, we were pretty close and I really miss the regular visits and phone calls we had, his widow is still struggling to come to terms with the loss, he was only 65.Lad I work with, 61 has been Ill for several months. GP refuses to see him basically and fobbed him off saying his persistent cough was a chest infection probably and prescribed antibiotics. Got no better, finally saw him and again, just prescribed antibiotics telling him not to worry. Weeks later, couldn’t eat or keep anything down, blood in stool they book him a colonoscopy. That was last week. They found a polyp and growth which resulted in a CT scan. Today he got told cancer is everywhere and all they can do now is palliative care.
Could and would it have been a different outcome had he been seen immediately and proper investigations happened? No idea, I’m no doctor but personally I think his care has been an utter fucking scandal.
Ok so maybe the outcome was inevitable, who knows, but I can't help but think if he'd been seen sooner by the right people he may well still be with us, thank fuck he's at peace now and not suffering the horrendous pain I saw him go through, I got to spend plenty of quality time with him and to help fulfil his wish to stay at home until the end.
Fuck off cancer!