Grown adult kids at home

My mates mum took him to a show flat on a new development in Hulme and when the were driving back she said " I've put down a £1 deposit and that's your flat number. Sort yourself a mortgage and it'll be ready in 11 months" Some others I know sold the family home when the twins were in the last year of uni. Gave them a deposit to buy or rent there own place and moved to Spain
Well this is the thing. My partner and I have separate houses. Her kids are starting to go uni and last year of school. There is a time line where she ends up here or I sell up and we buy somewhere of our own.

Might sound harsh but those plans don’t involve my then late 20s son.
 
Got the missus youngest (24) back home , we’d had a good 4 years without any kids and you don’t appreciate it till one comes back , it’s the constant absolute shit music coming from her room that riles me and the affect it has on our sex life as she rarely leaves the house
Keep up the sex life and she'll move out quickly enough.
 
Well this is the thing. My partner and I have separate houses. Her kids are starting to go uni and last year of school. There is a time line where she ends up here or I sell up and we buy somewhere of our own.

Might sound harsh but those plans don’t involve my then late 20s son.
Do your plans include staying in the area you are or making a total fresh start? Late 20's son might want to stay in the locale. Drop him a few quid so he can sort his own place out. His option could be you do a Council Application for him and present him as homeless or he finds a place and supports himself. I'm sure he'll still want to keep his account with Bank of Dad
 
Do your plans include staying in the area you are or making a total fresh start? Late 20's son might want to stay in the locale. Drop him a few quid so he can sort his own place out. His option could be you do a Council Application for him and present him as homeless or he finds a place and supports himself. I'm sure he'll still want to keep his account with Bank of Dad
Staying local.

It’s come to a head this last week as because of the time I spend at my partners, meaning this is his house to do as he pleases, he’s took the piss with how the house has been left. Told him if he wants to live where no fucks are given, no standards or rules, move out. Had this a few times over the last 4 years but it’s causing a lot of tension and stress.
 
Staying local.

It’s come to a head this last week as because of the time I spend at my partners, meaning this is his house to do as he pleases, he’s took the piss with how the house has been left. Told him if he wants to live where no fucks are given, no standards or rules, move out. Had this a few times over the last 4 years but it’s causing a lot of tension and stress.

This could be me writing this.

Difficult in what to say, so me and the Mrs moved house and didn't take him with us :)
 
My lad stayed with us till he was 32, he’s a saver and saved up towards his first house while here. I wanted to take house keeping off him and put it into an account and give it him in a lump sum when he was buying his first house. My wife never took it off him in the first place. The tosser.

He’s a great lad and a fantastic dad to his 4 year old daughter despite his divorce he has his daughter half the week. Just worked away in Turkey for 3 weeks which is a bind because of missing his daughter while away. Trying to save up so he can get his mortgage paid of sooner.
 
23 year old daughter and 20 year old son living with us. Both saving up for their own places …we don’t take rent off them on the proviso they are putting a few hundred quid away each month for a deposit

Not going to lie, I have to count to ten regularly ….
 

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